Replacer outfits male/female compatibility

[Inanna17]

I am currently using Shinshi armor for female npc and SOS revealing armor for male npc.  The problem I'm having is certain clothes like priest robes are being forced to use one mods design canceling the other. So if SOS is lower in load order, the female priests revert to vanilla outfits and if Shinshi is used, the males use vanilla outfits. I've checked the file names and for a few outfits,  armor, there is no _f to make manual changes for male/female. I  tried making my bash patch distinguish the files, but without luck. Those few outfits are outside of my ability to resolve, as each mod uses the same name and lookup process. Does anyone have any suggestions to fix this?  Merging the esp's gave same results. 

[Varithina]

Take a look at the armour addons for each armour piece so, what you would need to do depending on which load order they is to copy the male meshes from sos armour into the male meshes for shinshi, or the other way around the female mesh paths from shinsi into the sos female mesh paths.