female PC being treated as a male even without the strap on

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So basically is that im having a problem where all the animations put my character in the male position even when I disabled the strap-on.

I tried making others two npcs have sex and they had it normal, the female went into the female position and the male on male, but when I try with my character is dont work the same.

from what im seeing, all the places I looked at is saying that my character is female. Did I missed an option?