Sex difficulty settings please?

[Maximus808Prime]

I want to ask, is there a way to make sims always reject sex unless their romantic relationship or friendship is above a certain level? at the moment, i can just ask any stranger to have sex with me and almost all of them agree.

It would be great if there was a difficulty setting which would make sex an achievement. It's not just too easy atm, there is no challenge at all. Takes the fun out of it, in my opinion. No immersion.

[Scorpio]

1 hour ago, Maximus808Prime said:

I want to ask, is there a way to make sims always reject sex unless their romantic relationship or friendship is above a certain level? at the moment, i can just ask any stranger to have sex with me and almost all of them agree.

It would be great if there was a difficulty setting which would make sex an achievement. It's not just too easy atm, there is no challenge at all. Takes the fun out of it, in my opinion. No immersion.

I've done the same thing as I didn't want total strangers able to do the deed so easily.

 

First thing is to go into WW Settings/Sex Settings/Cheats, and disable 'Always Accept' setting, (should be no green bars).

 

Next is changing the Relationship Modifier Scores...

WW Settings/Sex Settings/Relationship Settings:

Player to NPC Sims Relationship Modifier: (set to -2.0 to -5.0 to start)

(I have mine set to -2.0 but it seems certain Sims will ask for sex at a lower relationship anyway)

 

Note: Sims need a 2.15 relationship score to make sex pairs.

Note: You'll have to experiment with the negative numbers to find your sweet spot.

Note: If any Sims have the 'Sexually Alluring' or 'Unique Appearance' traits they will boost the scores like a cheat.

 

The other setting to adjust if you don't want NPC-NPC sex happening with other sims you're fond of.

NPC Relationship Modifier: -2.5

(Located in the same area as the other setting)

(Married Sims will still go at it but other NPCs will need a higher friendship level with other NPCs for them to get busy).  

 

Edited August 4, 2025 by Scorpio

[Maximus808Prime]

great! thanks. I removed the unique appearance trait, changed player to npc modifier to -2 and added a shy trait to a sim, and got my first rejection lol never thought i'd be so happy with being rejected

[Scorpio]

Your welcome...

 

Since I like to play with WW autonomy enabled, at least most of the time, it's nice not getting bombarded with the 'ask for sex' from NPCs every 5 min when my sim is clubbing.

 

Now only my sims good friends and lovers ask so you can be more selective on partners.

 

Then I take an NPC I like and travel to a private location to get their friendship bar up high enough until they ask for sex.

(In most public locations they won't always work accurately because of so many other sims around and limited private locations).

 

But some NPCs need a higher friendship bar than others before they become available.

Depends on their Attractions and Likes/Dislikes settings.

If they don't match your player sims somewhat you'll have trouble making friends with them.