How to make followers not hostile when you are trying to grab them?

[apocalyptiq]

I noticed that when trying to touch or grab NPC (follower or not), he will become hostile if I don't stop. Is there any way to prevent it (so that I can play with their body, outside of SexLab animation)?

[Grey Cloud]

Warm your hands?

[jc321]

Uninstall planck as that's likely causing the issue .. I think the latest version of planck they tried to turn down the chance of making your NPC hostile.

 

 

[porpotenut]

It sounds like the aggression system from PLANCK. Basically, if the npc isn't your friend, they get more angry the more you touch them.
You can change these settings in the activeragdoll.ini file inside your SKSE plugins folder. (Data > SKSE > plugins > activeragdoll.ini)

If you want the aggression system off, you can set "doAggression" to 0.

Or if you want to keep it on but make it take longer for people to get mad, you can lower the values for the aggressionRequiredGrabTime(low/high/assault).