He won't let me use it with gays

[MarcosAEIOU]

I get a message that the orientation is incompatible, in the gender settings I put that it does not identify the genres. What can I do to make it work?

[Crashdown117]

Gender recognition is for assigning roles in animations, i.e. selecting who is "giving" and who is "receiving". This affects which animations are available to which Sims.

 

Your problem however is related to gender preferences, i.e. the sexual orientation of your Sims. There are a few things you can do to about it.

 - You can simply force WW to ignore any limitation regarding sex. Go into Settings > Sex > Cheats  and set "Always accept" to "full".

 - You can have WW ignore gender preferences. Go into Settings > Sex > Interactions and disable the option for respecting gender preferences (my game is in German, so I don't know the exact name of that option right now).

 - You can adjust the preferences of your Sims. This is done via console commands, which can be found here: https://wickedwhimsmod.com/relationships-gender-preference