opposite roles ..))

[thordes]

my character is acting like a woman. and all women as men. during sex they have male activity, my male character receives sex as a woman. what am I wrong? gender is good.....on SSE

[Vyxenne]

I had exactly the same issue and it turned out to be all those "force gender to" controls in SLEN. Apparently, they're only for Futa characters. Or something. I still don't know what they really do, but I know what they are for: me to leave the fuck alone.?

[TnTTnT]

Have you check gender setting in Sexlab MCM?

[donttellmywife]

I just started having this same issue, myself. It only seems to be happening with followers added by mods.

 

I added Myra the Taffy Dragon last night, and first noticed it with her.

 

I ran around in couple of dungeons with Brelyna today and had sex with her a few times with no issues. I took her back to the College and had sex with Nirya and Faralda with no issues (this was all to complete an Amorous Adventures quest). I also had sex with Mirabelle while I was there; again, no issues.

 

But then I added Sofia tonight and it's happening with her now.

 

Is there something I need to do to tell SexLab that she's the girl and I'm the boy?

 

Edit: I figured something out, as far as Sofia goes. It seems like it depends on what dialogue option I choose to initiate sex with her. If I ask her, "Is there anything else I can do for you?", it seems like that makes her the boy and me the girl. But if I choose, "Am I still your favorite?" (from the Some Consensual Sex mod), the animation plays properly. I guess maybe I just need to use that dialogue option with her, then.

 

Given Sofia's personality, I guess it doesn't seem too far out of line for her to enjoy taking on the male role and emasculating her partner.

[donttellmywife]

Whoops, sorry; on further review, I don't think I was experiencing the same thing as Thordes. I don't think what I was experiencing is even an issue, after all. Well, maybe a PEBCAK issue...

 

I went and talked to Mirabelle, and saw that she also now has that "Is there anything else I can do for you?" option. When I saw that, I realized that that line must be from the Male version of Some Consensual Sex. It's how you trigger sex with a friendly male NPC with that mod. And that's why Sofia (and probably Myra) pegged my character instead of letting him take her in a manly fashion when I chose that line.

 

That mod has a Female version, and a Male version. "Am I still your favorite?" is how you trigger sex with a female in the Female version of the mod, and "Is there anything else I can do for you?" is how you trigger sex with a male in the Male version of that mod.

 

I have both versions, so I can crawl under some furs with the opposite sex whether I'm playing a male or a female, and I was inadvertently choosing the Male line while talking to a female, which made her take the "male" role while my male character took the "female" role.