Normal, Deviant, or Honest?

[LordJerle]

So I was thinking, publicly, at least in the US, society is pretty socially conservative regarding sexual values and practices.  Given this community is based around sexual modifications for multiple games, we openly talk about our sexual preferences and desires, and I'm just curious if you think this is the norm for people, or are we just fucked in the head?  Poll is private, so feel free to throw in your votes, and leave your thoughts on the matter!

 

(Crap, wrong board, can a mod move this to off topic please?)

[nonusnomeni]

well i think all that fuss about sexual liberty is overrated

in real life i am veeeeery conservative and i believe there is a place for talking about sex and that is bedroom and only between wife and husband

i was never have sex with GF and not feel some sort of guilt after that and yes i was never fully enjoyed in act

reason could be me by because i really love females (nope; i adore) so i am scared of possibility to hurt them in any way

i know i know i am stile stuck in ancient history but that is my way

and that is primary reason i use that "dirty" mods as sexout, lovers pk, minilovers...

in real life when i see a prostitute i feel then we as society are fail, in game this is good way to make quick money

zoofilia, rape; something i can't comprehend in real life is intriguing refreshment in the game

but even in the games i can not allow my self to do some things; extreme sadism or kill female child (male OK but female; not even in the game)

so your question, as i am understand, is about  LL community and my answer will be after some time i was spend on this site and taking in consideration few posts i was see:

 

c) honest

[Something]

Give or take I agree with nonusnomeni. And no, that's not old-fashioned thinking.

 

There's a time and place for everything. In the bedroom, among close friends (within reason of course) and among family. Loverslab works as a community where we're all in the same boat more-or-less, free to express our ticks as much or as little as we like. And I have to say i'm extremely impressed, i've been on many message boards, this one is probably one of the most mature communities i've known.

 

I voted C because I do think we're being honest with ourselves.

[nonusnomeni]

it is end of the world...

i say:

it is end of the world!!!

[Something]

The day you and I agree on anything...crap.

TAKE COVER!!

[ChancellorKremlin]

Make that three. Maybe there is hope after all!?

[Something]

Now the end of the world would REALLY come about if R733 and I agreed on anything 

 

Also, what happens if you're honest with yourself and are a self-proclaimed deviant? It occurs to me that they aren't mutually exclusive.

[Guest]

To be honest, I think we're all a bit of each!

[dboura]

Nah why be normal ... no fun there

[Sindril]

i guess all  choises 3 are right , everyone has its kinks , but some  kinks are more "acceptable" in our society, for example an atraction towards high heels or foot jobs and other are less "acceptable" like rape fantasy ( eventhough its the most common) in the end its normal but people like to pretend otherwise.

[Remy]

I dont consider normal whats being considered normal nowadays...3rd option for me.

[Emily]

Emily is deviant.

 

Some people hates her for being strange.

 

Her mind is fucked.

 

must buy birthday present for daddy.

[Guest Bacon]

C here. In Sweden where i live i get the feeling that most males around 30 years old and up have a high fear for gay people for some reason. The very notion that 2 guys would get intimate together makes them all cringe. Kinda makes me wonder what their honest opinion is. If they fear something as trivial as that i wonder what they would think of me if i told them some of my fetishes.