Sexlab mistook my gay boy as a lady in sex

[icyhugs]

I have been using Sexlab with SAM body for years. I uninstalled the game and cleaned everything to rebuild from ground zero since lots of mods are out dated. Now I have a problem that when my gay boy is mistaken as a lady while he is enjoying his hunky male follower love making.

 

The hunky follower Alexander is using Bettermale https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/2488 with the erect big gun option. My boy didn't have any problem in the foreplay but when they start to fxxk, my boy morphs in horror XD 

 

Attached are the screen shorts and my load order. Many thx in advance. By the way, when Better Male body was activated and loaded before the SAM files, they fxxked normally though my soft skin skinny bottom boy had 2 dicks and a ripped body as a result  So, is this a problem of load order or incorrect SAM installation?

 

Many thx in advance

 

 

[icyhugs]

And this is the Sexlab debug log from MyGames directory. 

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:40PM] ActorAlias[Alexander]  - Strip: [True, True, True, True, True, False, False, True, True, True, False, True, False, False, False, True, True, True, False, True, False, False, False, True, True, False, True, True, True, True, False, False, True]

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:40PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.765999

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:40PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:40PM] ActorAlias[Oliver Hugs]  - Equipment: [[Form < (692D2C07)>]]

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:40PM] ActorAlias[Alexander]  - Equipment: [[Form < (0603992A)>], [Form < (350018B7)>], [Form < (0001395D)>], [Form < (0603992D)>], [Form < (0603993C)>]]

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:48PM] NOTICE: ValidateActor(Valinka) -- TRUE -- HIT

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:48PM] NOTICE: ValidateActor(Ama) -- TRUE -- MISS

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:51PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:51PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.801010

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:52PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:53PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:53PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.749008

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:53PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.817001

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0]  - SyncLock(1)

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:54PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.782990

[12/07/2018 - 06:55:55PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:00PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:00PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:01PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.716003

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:02PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:02PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.764999

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:02PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - OrgasmStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - StageStart

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] ActorAlias[Alexander]  - Orgasms[1] Enjoyment [13] BaseEnjoyment[-43] FullEnjoyment[56]

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] ActorAlias[Oliver Hugs]  - Orgasms[1] Enjoyment [14] BaseEnjoyment[-65] FullEnjoyment[79]

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] NOTICE: Vaginal:False-1 Oral:False-0 Anal:TRUE-2

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:03PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Sync) - Lag Timer: 9.631012

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:04PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - OrgasmEnd

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:05PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - AnimationEnding

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:05PM] ActorAlias[Alexander]  - Resetting!

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:05PM] ActorAlias[Oliver Hugs]  - Resetting!

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:06PM] Thread[0] SyncDone(Reset) - Lag Timer: 29.418991

[12/07/2018 - 06:56:06PM] Thread[0] Event Hook - AnimationEnd
 

So... what really went wrong?

[srayesmanll]

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Sexlab is not "mistaking you for female", the mod requesting the sex animation from sexlab framework is passing the player as the first actor, so by default they are the "female" or more specifically, the "receiver".  You need to look through the sexlab mods and see if they have options in the MCM to set the player as always the "giver".  To be honest, I don't think this will be options in most mods - they tend to be female oriented, basically they look for females to be the receiver and if no female, then the player is passed first.  However there is an easier "fix" - hit the '=' key to swap the actors.  Problem solved.

[Nazzzgul666]

@srayesmanll I had the same thought first but was wondering, gay means not necessarily mean "giving only", right? Check his last screenshot for "the horror"^^

 

@OP: i've never seen this happen to male characters, but that's probably just because of less users. When this happens to female characters it's (almost?) always a skeleton problem, not related to the body. Make sure XPMSE isn't overwritten by anything, i have no clue how to do that with Vortex, though. For NMM that means reinstall, for MO changing install order by drag & drop.

[icyhugs]

On 12/8/2018 at 6:43 AM, Nazzzgul666 said:

@srayesmanll I had the same thought first but was wondering, gay means not necessarily mean "giving only", right? Check his last screenshot for "the horror"^^

 

@OP: i've never seen this happen to male characters, but that's probably just because of less users. When this happens to female characters it's (almost?) always a skeleton problem, not related to the body. Make sure XPMSE isn't overwritten by anything, i have no clue how to do that with Vortex, though. For NMM that means reinstall, for MO changing install order by drag & drop.

Yea. The problem did not occur during the previous installation. It started after this week's re-installation from 0. I wonder if it was because I don't use Follow Me For Sex this time around? I used to use both SLEN and FMFS together. There was an option to label my PC as receiver always XD

[Nazzzgul666]

None of those has anything to do with a skeleton so no, not likely.

[icyhugs]

On 12/10/2018 at 3:16 AM, Nazzzgul666 said:

None of those has anything to do with a skeleton so no, not likely.

Then does it mean, uninstalling and reinstalling SAM and related plugins will not help much? 

[Nazzzgul666]

6 hours ago, icyhugs said:

Then does it mean, uninstalling and reinstalling SAM and related plugins will not help much? 

Not likely, no. XPMSE is the skeleton.

[icyhugs]

On 12/11/2018 at 11:21 PM, Nazzzgul666 said:

Not likely, no. XPMSE is the skeleton.

An update on the problem. I found that the body morphs in a wrong way when the guys sit as well. So, is that a problem on installing SAM and related textures plugins? Since u mentioned XPMSE, did u mean I need to pull it lower or push it up from the load order? I have BOTH XP32 Skeleton and XPSE installed, r they conflicting one another? Thank you.

 

[Nazzzgul666]

1. use spoilers please.

2. Yes they conflict with each other

3. Load order doesn't matter, but XPMSE needs to overwrite everything.

[icyhugs]

On 12/18/2018 at 2:32 AM, Nazzzgul666 said:

1. use spoilers please.

2. Yes they conflict with each other

3. Load order doesn't matter, but XPMSE needs to overwrite everything.

Thank you. But the problem is Vortex does not overwrite mods, it just ask u to 'load before' or 'load after'  So, does loading XPMSE after all the mods equals to overwrite?

[Nazzzgul666]

I don't think so, but i'm not 100% sure.