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Issues? See *Troubleshooting at the bottom!

 

 

 

Are your Sims tired of the same three relationships: Friendly, Romance, and Dislike? Do they no longer enjoy the sexual activities they once did? Do they experience emotional discomfort and pain but like it?

If you and your Sims find the average 24-minute day mundane and boring, there is help available.

 

Hi. I’m EllaNoir and I am the creator of the expanding BDSM mod for The Sims 4, FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM.

This NSFW mod has been put together with your Sims in mind because everyone knows when your Sims are horny, you are too.

So put down that cowplant and download FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM today!

 

 

 

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FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Official Guide & Info

 

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is a mod for The Sims 4 created to simulate the real-world BDSM lifestyle. My goal is to go beyond the sexual aspect that is received in BDSM and bring forth other great elements such as special relationships, training, various events, and so much more.

 

 

 

 

Traits & How to Begin

To initiate FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM, begin by adding traits to your Sims through the Rewards Store or Wicked Whims' "Wicked Attributes".

 

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For Sims who prefer the Dominant role, there are 3 traits available to be added:

 

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For the submissive role of Sims, there are 3 traits as well:

 

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And for Sims who enjoy being both, there is the Switch trait:

 

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*The Switch trait activates the Dominant trait and Submissive trait skills and social interactions.

 

 

 

BDSiM Skills & Moods

 

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Every trait comes with its own skill, moods, and social interactions. As a trait's skill is increased, more social interactions will be unlocked. Using a trait's interactions will increase the trait's skill progression.

 

For an example:

A Sim with the Dominant trait will start with 3 social interactions. Every time the Sim uses the Dominant socials, the Dominant skill will increase. When the Dominant skill progresses from level 1 to 2, more Dominant socials will be unlocked and available to use.

 

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*Sims can only use BDSiM social interactions with other Sims who also have BDSiM traits.

 

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Sims with BDSiM traits will begin to increase the major skills for whichever role they have. For example, a Sim with the Dominant role traits has an overall skill for the Dominant role that is increased for every Dominant act the Sim does. This is the same for Sims with the submissive role traits.

In our world, can one say they are a Master/Mistress simply because they said so? I think not. Therefore, the Dominant major skill is to see that your Sims must also earn their honorific!

But more on this later and what it means for your Sims with the FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM mod. In the meantime, be aware that the Dominant skill and the Dominant trait skill are two different skills with different purposes. And this is the same for the submissive skill and submissive trait skill as you can see examples below from the skill panel.

 

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 Moods are unique to each BDSiM trait and will appear from certain acts or occurrences relevant to that trait.

 

 

 

 

D/s Dynamic

 

Now that we have discussed how to begin FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM and your Sims are happily situated with their BDSiM roles and traits, it is time to move on to the BDSiM relationships offered in FlirtyFetishes.

 

The first relationship that is available for your Sims is called the D/s Dynamic--Dominant/submissive Dynamic.

 

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For this relationship to be created, you must have one Sim with a Dominant role BDSiM trait (i.e., Demeaning, Dominant, Sadist) and one Sim with a submissive role BDSiM trait (i.e., Degraded, Masochist, Submissive). These Sims will then need to have at least 50% progress in their Friendship AND their Romance:

 

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Once this occurs, your Sims are ready to become a BDSiM item in a D/s Dynamic. A new pie menu category called “D/s Dynamic” will appear within the FlirtyFetishes Pie Menu Category.

 

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Within the D/s Dynamic pie menu, you can “Ask to Create D/s Dynamic”. Fantastic! If the other Sim agrees, these two lucky Sims will now be in a D/s Dynamic. Congratulations! If not, keep trying. Sometimes it may take a bit more time to convince another Sim to engage in BDSiM; just like in real life, eh?

 

 

Titles & Ownership

Now, remember those major skills we were discussing earlier—the Dominant and submissive role skills? Increasing these skills will come in handy for the next relationship: Ownership.

Ownership is a wonderful commitment between two Sims, even more so than the D/s Dynamic. One Sim must be a Master or Mistress and the other Sim must be a slave for this relationship to be established.

For a Sim to become a Master/Mistress, the Dominant skill must be maxed. There are 10 levels.

 

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For this skill to progress to completion, your Sim may use Dominant role socials i.e., any socials of the Dominant role like Demeaning, Sadistic, Dominant trait, etc., and the Dominant skill will increase. Or they can study with the BDSiM skill books by purchasing them from any bookcase:

 

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For a Sim to become a slave, the submissive skill must be maxed.

 

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Just as with the Dominant skill, this skill will increase with submissive role socials are used, such as from the Degraded, Masochist, and Submissive socials. Skills books are also available to purchase and read from any bookshelf!

 

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Once the role skill is completed, your Sim has earned their deserving title! How exciting!

 

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*The Master trait is the title given to a Sim with masculine gender preferences and the Mistress trait is given to Sims with feminine gender preferences.

 

It is now time for your Sims to begin their relationship known as Ownership in FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM. This relationship will start when a Master/Mistress collars a Sim with a slave trait.

 

*Please be aware Sims must already be in a D/s Dynamic before collaring and Ownership can be initiated.

 

There are two ways a Sim can be collared. If your Sims want to have a big event and show the rest of the BDSiM community your commitment to each other, then having a Collaring Ceremony is the way to go!

 

 

Collaring Ceremony

Simply go to “Plan a Social Event” under the “Social” category on your Sim’s phone. You will see the option to have a Collaring Ceremony. Select all the required parties for your event and location.

 

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Now the Ceremony can begin! With this event, it has a main goal and other goals to complete.

 

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To collar your slave, all your Sim has to do is simply open the D/s Dynamic pie menu and select “Collar {1.SimFirstName}”.

 

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This will prompt the Ownership relationship and now your Sims are committed to one another!

What if a big ceremony isn’t your Sims’ style? No worries! Once the Master/Mistress traits are added to your Sims and they are in a D/s Dynamic with a Sim with the slave trait, the “Collar” social will become available. Then you may collar a slave Sim in the comfort of your own home…or wherever you please!

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There are also buffs and whims that occur throughout FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM gameplay.

*Whims are a new addition I am still learning, so some socials may complete whims and there may be other bugs—but nothing to harm your game!

 

 

Creator’s Note: There are plenty of things in FlirtyFetishes that are not yet completed. Some photos may be empty and there may be other elements that are lacking. Please understand that I am adding updates monthly to fill and grow this mod. Your patience is appreciated!

 

Your feedback is greatly valued so please let me know if there is anything you would like to see added or different. I am happy to take most things into consideration.

And if you see anywhere that has a typo or is empty where there is mostly supposed to be a description or other writing, please let me know ASAP with a screenshot if possible!

 

*Troubleshooting: I am always willing to help resolve any issue that is affecting gameplay with FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM. But before you contact me, please take these steps first to save us both time and resolve the issue as soon as possible!

 

1.    Is the .TS4SCRIPT file only ONE folder deep?

The bar in your File Explorer should look like the photo below:

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2.    Is your game updated? Are all your mods up to date—including FlirtyFetishes? Prove it.

3.    Have you removed all your mods EXCEPT FlirtyFetishes and loaded the game to see if the issue still exists?

4.    Have you read through this guide, like really read it, to see if maybe you are missing something?

5.    If you have done steps 1-4 and the issue persists, then please contact to me! For the quickest response for support, contact me via Discord. (Gain access from Patreon) If not, try X(Twitter) before LL. Whichever path you choose, I will do my best to get you and your Sims back on track!

 

Credits:

 

TURBODRIVER because duh.

 

Marysal: Creating the custom animations for FF!

 

S4S

 

TheSimKid

 

And of course, players like you.

 

 

 

Get Monthly Patreon EARLY ACCESS here 

Or get updates for what's coming by following me on Twitter

 

 

 

DISCLAIMER: FlirtyFetishes: BDSM is a modified addition created for The Sims 4 by me, EllaNoir. All icons, artwork, visual elements, etc. have been edited from pre-existing TS4 icons by myself to keep the flavor of the Simlish flavor but to create the BDSM theme for this mod. Please do not claim anything within this mod as your own. And credit me wherever you may show my mod! Please.

 

 

 

 

To Download:

 

·         Click “Download this File” in the upper righthand corner

·         Unzip/extract the archive file

·         Place .package file within mods folder

·         Make sure you have allowed mods in the Other Settings of The Sims 4

·         Replace FlirtyFetishes: BDSM with the updated version when it becomes available.

·         Enjoy!

 

 

 

This BDSM mod does not have any requirements and is base game compatible.

Wicked Whims by TURBODRIVER is suggested.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited by EllaNoir
Information update


What's New in Version January_Part_I   See changelog

Released

 

-Added 2 new Social Interactions under the Demeaning Trait

-Added 1 new Interaction under the Degraded Trait

-New Corresponding Buffs

-Fixed typos

-Removed Tooltip from Pie Menu

-Updated FF Icon

 

If you have any questions, issues, or feedback, let me know! For quicker response time, come to my X page! For even quicker responses, access my Discord through Patreon


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