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Everything changed...


Deso561PL

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For sometime i got idk... Block or something...

 

Well since january everything changed about my view in NSFW... I left WoW NSFW community because i got tired of some person shitty attiude toward me and few other people. Yeah maybe i could quiet it wouldn't happend but no regrets actually... The only thing what saddens me, that i lost some of friends thanks to that shit.

 

So yeah i'm affraid that someday, but not now yet. I might leave LL and other sites / discords.

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Every community has nice people, and less nice people. Leaving will not help you living among a community, but will progressively isolate you in the end. Just a tip if ending alone is not what you want : be nice to others. That's a good way to get people around you to be nicer. You act, others react ; that's how people are. Do not expect them to be friendly if you do not show some friendliness yourself. spamafote.gif

 

I suspect you will not answer my comment more than you did to any other I wrote when you looked even more depressed and uninterested than you usually seem. But if in the end it makes you reconsider your attitude, then it's not lost. I hope your relationship with others will improve in the future.

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22 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

Every community has nice people, and less nice people. Leaving will not help you living among a community, but will progressively isolate you in the end. Just a tip if ending alone is not what you want : be nice to others. That's a good way to get people around you to be nicer. You act, others react ; that's how people are. Do not expect them to be friendly if you do not show some friendliness yourself. spamafote.gif

 

I suspect you will not answer my comment more than you did to any other I wrote when you looked even more depressed and uninterested than you usually seem. But if in the end it makes you reconsider your attitude, then it's not lost. I hope your relationship with others will improve in the future.

I know you're actually right, but no matter how nice i can be. I still encounter some assholes... Guess that's my bad luck. xD But the true issue i got, is i got anxiety and is difficult for me to deal with it. I've got in RL lots of bad events happend in past, and they taken it's toll on me right now.

 

I start sadly to think, that even friends you can get only by money.

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1 hour ago, Deso561PL said:

I know you're actually right, but no matter how nice i can be. I still encounter some assholes... Guess that's my bad luck. xD But the true issue i got, is i got anxiety and is difficult for me to deal with it. I've got in RL lots of bad events happend in past, and they taken it's toll on me right now.

Everyone encounters people behaving like assholes. The point is that you're not forced to keep-on talking to them, whereas people you've been nice with will tend to keep talking to you. And so, assholes go back and forth whereas the amount of friendly contacts slowly grows with time. 

 

Take Prince and Eva for example : they had to deal with haters all along. But while letting the assholes pass by, they encountered a lot of friendly people, and have now a very large contact/friend list. They've been there for so long that they're sayings are taken with attention by Ashal, who's friendly to them. Time and patience gave this to them. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

 

I understand your point about anxiety though. It can take quite a toll indeed. But don't let it's consequences invade what should be relaxing/recreational times for you. There's a time for everything, and the more relaxed you are, the better you'll be to face it afterwards.  :classic_smile:

1 hour ago, Deso561PL said:

I start sadly to think, that even friends you can get only by money.

I'd go for complicity, time and sincerity instead. If you need money to get someone to be friendly towards you, then that person isn't a real friend IMO. :classic_smile:

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Deso, my friend ..... Triloque is right. I'm not saying it because he "praised" my prince and me, but because he is wise and all he said is true. My Prince and I see you as our virtual friend and I wish we can do more then having "keyboard conversations", but we both knows it's not possible. :frown:  Anyway, if you ever need to open your soul to someone, my Prince and I will be here for you. Discretion guaranteed. :smile:

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