Need help with load order and mod compadibility

[Knaberfresh]

 It started with crashes near citys and has now evolved to crashing everywhere. I am guesing that it is some compadibility issue but i am unsure as to what is conflicting.

 

This is the load order that i am using

  0  0     Skyrim.esm
  1  1     Update.esm
  2  2     Dawnguard.esm
  3  3     HearthFires.esm
  4  4     Dragonborn.esm
  5  5     ApachiiHair.esm
  6  6     SexLab.esm
  7  7     Devious Devices - Assets.esm
  8  8     SexLabAroused.esm
  9  9     Devious Devices - Integration.esm
 10  a     ZaZAnimationPack.esm
 11  b     dcc-soulgem-oven-000.esm
 12  c     CreatureFramework.esm
 13  d     RidingStyles2.esm
 14  e     Devious Devices - Expansion.esm
 15  f     Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm
 16 10     DeviousFramework.esm
 17 11     hdtHighHeel.esm
 18 12     RaceCompatibility.esm
 19 13     lustyonehand.esp
 20 14     KS Hairdos - HDT.esp
 21 15     KJ Tattoos 2K.esp
 22 16     FNISSexyMove.esp
 23 17     MilkModNEW.esp
 24 18     MilkMod_MilkPumpsFancy.esp
 25 19     SDO Full-LOD - The Morthal Swamp Light.esp
 26 1a     SexLab TDF Aggressive Prostitution.esp
 27 1b     Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer.esp
 28 1c     RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp
 29 1d     RaceMenu.esp
 30 1e     RaceMenuPlugin.esp
 31 1f     SkyUI.esp
 32 20     voidLetsGetNaked.esp
 33 21     FNIS.esp
 34 22     Remodeled Armor - Underwear.esp
 35 23     Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer - Dawnguard.esp
 36 24     Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer - Dragonborn.esp
 37 25     Zipsuit.esp
 38 26     dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp
 39 27     CannabisUpdate.esp
 40 28     WetandCold.esp
 41 29     WetandCold - Ashes.esp
 42 2a     hydra_slavegirls.esp
 43 2b     SexLabNudeCreatures.esp
 44 2c     SexLabNudeCreaturesDB.esp
 45 2d     SexLabNudeCreaturesDG.esp
 46 2e     HentaiCreatures.esp
 47 2f     SexLabSkoomaWhore.esp
 48 30     SexLab Beastess.esp
 49 31     SDO Full-LOD - Whiterun Trundra Creeks.esp
 50 32     Skooming Skyrim by BigBizkit.esp
 51 33     SFO - Dragonborn.esp
 52 34     Bijin Warmaidens.esp
 53 35     MilkMod.esp
 54 36     Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
 55 37     The Dungeon.esp
 56 38     SOS - Shop.esp
 57 39     TemptressVixen.esp
 58 3a     SDO Full-LOD - Giant Campfires.esp
 59 3b     Remodeled Armor.esp
 60 3c     FNISspells.esp
 61 3d     Sweet&Sexy Lingerie.esp
 62 3e     SexyBikinis.esp
 63 3f     Darklilith.esp
 64 40     Cannabis.esp
 65 41     SuccubusRaceLite.esp
 66 42     Beastess Vampire.esp
 67 43     RosaFollower.esp
 68 44     Apocalypse - The Spell Package.esp
 69 45     sextoys-calyps-2.esp
 70 46     ASX_Spells.esp
 71 47     Bijin NPCs.esp
 72 48     Bijin Wives.esp
 73 49     ZazResources.esp
 74 4a     IcePenguinWorldMap.esp
 75 4b     Blush When Aroused.esp
 76 4c     dc-untamed-000.esp
 77 4d     Lucretia.esp
 78 4e     DibellanDefender.esp
 79 4f     pchsImmersivePlugs.esp
 80 50     Jugs.esp
 81 51     MoreNastyCritters.esp
 82 52     SexLabGenderChange.esp
 83 53     SexLab Inflation Framework.esp
 84 54     Immersive Arousal.esp
 85 55     SexLabDefeat.esp
 86 56     SlaveTats.esp
 87 57     SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
 88 58     SOS Female Schlongifier (No Schlong Addon by Erundil).esp
 89 59     TheDungeonFollowerPublicTEST.esp
 90 5a     TheEyesOfBeauty.esp
 91 5b     Bathing in Skyrim - Main.esp
 92 5c     MilkModNEW CF.esp
 93 5d     MilkModNEW HF.esp
 94 5e     MilkModNEW ZaZ.esp
 95 5f     DW.esp
 96 60     UIExtensions.esp
 97 61     XPMSE.esp
 98 62     SOSRaceMenu.esp
 99 63     Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
100 64     bac.esp
101 65     SOS - ERF Equipable Horse Penis.esp
102 66     SOS - ERF Horse Penis Addon.esp
103 67     sr_FillHerUp.esp
104 68     BeastessLair.esp
 

[Karen1965]

Move alternate start to bottom of load order .next above alternate move XPMSE second of load order . then use loot to redo load order . Check that both Alternate at bottom next above XPMSE above . Have you download FNIS from NEXUS .Not just FNIS sexy move as you will need to run FNIS program . Check load order matches Bethesda Load order matches NMM . I would download CBBE body mod and body sliders as sometimes you need to match up the body mod you are using to armours  . I know this may sound daft are you using the correct SKSE for skyrim old or SKSE 64 for skyrim SE . link :http://skse.silverlock.org/ . You may need the correct ver of TSE5edit Nexus to check for errors .