Married. But doesn't recognize wife nor does it show proper dialogue.

[Iamwrong12]

It all started when I finally decided to take a dip inside Loverslab, decided that I wanted to use the defeat mod and the Spouses enhanced mods. When I first did everything here, I had just gotten married, however, things started to go to hell when I moved into my house with my spouse. 

     The usual dialogue showed up, with her opening up a shop and whatnot, and addressed me as "My love" at first. Then it stopped showing, and when I tried to use the Spouses enhanced dialogue options, it didn't show up. So I looked at the MCM menu, and discovered that it didn't recognized my wife, and using console commands, it showed my character as single instead of being married. My wife even started treating me like a follower.

     So at first I thought it was because of Relationship Dialogue Overhaul, so I got rid of it and started a new game (As well as running LOOT of course.) But now, it was worse. Despite my follower being a custom follower (Vanilla voiced), and saying in the mod page that it was marriable, the option wouldn't show at all now. Even after talking with Maramal and recieving the amulet and talking to her, she would just ignore the amulet and speak as if she was not marriable. 

     So I thought it was UFO (They told me it was rather outdated.) So I unisntalled, changed for AFT, ran LOOT and all the good stuff. But it's still the same.

     AFT showed my follower's marriage option as [NO]. So I used console commands, added her to the marriagable faction, and the marriage option changed to [YES]. So I used the amulet of mara, dialogue showed up, went through the ceremony, but after it was done, I can't get the option to tell her where to live. And after we exit the temple, she treats me like a follower again - No spouse dialogue, and nor Spouses Enhanced or the console command recognize her as my character's wife, despite the quest being triggered.

     Could one of my mods in my load order be conflicting with the marriage quest? I can't even pinpoint it. Hope you guys can help me.

 

 

Long story short: Tried to marry, even went through the quest and all, dialogue doesn't show up. Console doesn't recognize my wife or my character as being married. 

 

Also, my load order:

 

Skyrim.esm

Update.esm

Dawnguard.esm

HearthFires.esm

Dragonborn.esm

Skyrim Project Optimization - Full Version.esm

Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch.esp

Campfire.esm

RSkyrimChildren.esm

SexLab.esm

daymoyl.esm

SexLabAroused.esm

HighResTexturePack01.esp

HighResTexturePack02.esp

HighResTexturePack03.esp

Skyrim Project Optimization - Full Version.esp

PHR_RE.esp

Insignificant Object Remover.esp

Shadow Remover.esp

Remove Smoke and Dust.esp

SkyUI.esp

SkyrimConfigMenu.esp

Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp

Guard Dialogue Overhaul.esp

Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp

FCO - Follower Commentary Overhaul.esp

Immersive Weapons.esp

RaceMenu.esp

RaceMenuPlugin.esp

KS Hairdo's.esp

Auto Unequip Ammo.esp

dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp

dD-Dragonborn-Dawnguard-EBT Patch.esp

LPSleep.esp

SkyTweak.esp

AMatterOfTime.esp

Size does matter.esp

JobsofSkyrim.esp

Cloaks.esp

Eli's Coffee Mod.esp

LPBards.esp

BelkoFollower.esp

ImmediateDragons.esp

BecomeKingofSkyrim.esp

Hunterborn.esp

Frostfall.esp

TakeNotes.esp

HeartBreaker.esp

VioLens.esp

Brevi_MoonlightTalesEssentials.esp

BlackHorseCourier.esp

More Interesting Loot for Skyrim.esp

ArmorOfIntrigue.esp

Immersive Sounds - Footsteps.esp

Werewolf Lesser Power.esp

RSChildren.esp

DreamBurrowsRegalHuntsmanArmor.esp

RealisticNightsDB.esp

RealisticNightsDG.esp

UsefulDogs.esp

ReadingTakesTime.esp

ColorfulLightsNoShadows.esp

RealisticNights.esp

Duelist - One Handed Perk.esp

TavernGames.esp

Beards.esp

FNIS.esp

SexLabDefeat.esp

A Simple Marriage Mod.esp

daymoyl_DawnguardAddon.esp

SpousesEnhanced.esp

Missives.esp

LoversComfort.esp

Immersive Speechcraft.esp

garm_sr_no_armor.esp

iNeed.esp

iNeed - Dangerous Diseases.esp

vMYC_MeetYourCharacters.esp

Imaginator BETA.esp

_aya_zelaII.esp

JaxonzDiagnostics.esp

attack commitment movement speed fluid 3.esp

TKDodge.esp

Overknee_Nadia.esp

UltimateCombat.esp

Schlongs of Skyrim - Light.esp

honedmetal.esp

anyonefollows2.esp

Blush When Aroused.esp

Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp

da_alternate_start_extension.esp

Realistic Weapon Positions.esp

AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp

 

 

> I have AFT at the very bottom for now, but it's always where LOOT puts it, I just changed it to the bottom to test if anything changed, nope.

> Anyone follows is a mod I installed before posting this to see if it can somehow fix the marriage quest or something. Didn't work. It's basically a marry anyone mod. Will remove.

[Uncle64]

Dont think you have run LOOT correct on that load order.

You also have HighResTexturePack01.esp You need The unofficial patch for it.

 

You have

Skyrim Project Optimization - Full Version.esp

Skyrim Project Optimization - Full Version.esm

Use only one of them.

 

This is one you should not use since it contains old files that are not compatible whit some of the other mods you have.

vMYC_MeetYourCharacters.esp

 

Aft should not be after alternate start, LOOT will newer place it there.

You should also consider to use Iaft instead of Aft.

 

Instead of removing RDO you should have removed FCO since RDO supersedes FCO.

Dont use them together.

 

My self have newer used this mod.

A Simple Marriage Mod.esp

 

But it may have issues whit the marriage system that Spouses enhanced tracks.

 

What tool did you use for installing your mods?