No dialogue option to initiate sex with men as a male character

[minviendha]

Hey,

 

I recently had to scrub my mods and restart a game after having been using SexLab for a while. On the new game, I can apparently no longer initiate sex with male NPCs - the animation works fine with female NPCs and for masturbation (using Matchmaker) but no dialogue option appears in general. I started a new game with another character (male) and it appeared to be working...does anyone know why on a specific save this would happen? And if there's any way to fix it, or do I have to start over?

 

No debug logs because there's no bug to show - animations work fine when they're available, just the dialogue isn't even available to start sex (but only with male characters). 

 

My save hates gays?

 

Thanks!

[Sailing Rebel]

I'll go out on a limb here and assume one of your mods is Submit and this is what's being used for the dialogue options.

 

That being the case go to SexLab Submit MCM -> General Options and set the Sexual Preference (this is only for dialogue, not combat).

[minviendha]

Oh my god, that is so basic and I am so embarrassed. Thank you. 

 

(mutters about default straight settings though)