passion BORDEROFEXTACY_Passion

[SexySim42069]

Yaaaasssssss! So excited to try this mod. Thanks

[Moone33]

On 9/17/2025 at 7:33 PM, ritaxis said:

I'm not a script error expert, but it looks like passion failed to engage the 2nd sim with that animation. Probably--although I don't see evidence for it here, it does happen a lot with this kind of thing--because the other sim got called away to perform some other interaction before Passion could find it. I don't know how to fix the null value errors, but usually they go away on their own when I'm fixing other problems.  The second sim is usually mentioned in Passion script error reports, so my guess is that that sim dropped out of the picture right away after the animation was requested.

 

That being said, you've also got some out of date Nraas mods, which may not match well with the current ones you have. It's worth while to keep all of the mods up to date by downloading them from the source:  https://nraas.net/community/

 

 Will do, thanks 😁

[Skazzy]

Where are the export settings saved? I imported previously saved settings and decided to turn off near relation woo hoo, only for the game to freeze. I had to close it and trying to make a new world (moonlight falls) kept failing. Deleted all saves (idc for them dont worry) and cleared my caches, but now the game is crashing.

[Skazzy]

15 minutes ago, Skazzy said:

Where are the export settings saved? I imported previously saved settings and decided to turn off near relation woo hoo, only for the game to freeze. I had to close it and trying to make a new world (moonlight falls) kept failing. Deleted all saves (idc for them dont worry) and cleared my caches, but now the game is crashing.

Alright I got the game to boot again. I guess it took a minute to fully kill the process. But the freeze was pretty bad. Otherwise no problems with the mod so far!

[VixVox]

Is anyone else having issues with masturbation? None of my Sims can complete their solo sessions. I've tried with both male and female Sims (a married couple) and their needs deplete faster than they can finish

[VixVox]

On 7/11/2025 at 11:00 AM, Scubasuit said:

Babydoll dress (was a 3-group item lol, with the extra group needed for the penis and the group needed for the 3D sheer skirt), recognized as penis with "exclude invalid positions" enabled, so the sim would never perform animations that have the wrong anatomy for them:

 

Note that the erect form penis shape got altered after this.

 

Any chance you could share the download link for the dress? It's v cute, does it also come in fem?

[monalots]

Hiii im so thankful someone is picking this mod back up, but i keep having this weird issue where my sims just start like vibrating (?) and the sound is fucked up and it lags a ton. What could this be? Has anyone else experienced this? Happens with all animations, and both duo and solo

 

Here is a video of it:

https://streamable.com/ws4cod

[jhetay30]

I was wondering if their is a way to unblurr them I’m having that issue right now their still blurred while in the act 

[ptsdfromhome]

On 10/11/2025 at 12:47 PM, jhetay30 said:

I was wondering if their is a way to unblurr them I’m having that issue right now their still blurred while in the act 

You can download NRaaS Decensor: https://www.nraas.net/community/Decensor

[Possumteeth]

@BorderofExtacy Hey there, sorry for the ping but I read in the features that "Sim genitalia can now be modularly registered via a tuning file, allowing for integration with any bottom." I didn't really understand how to do that and couldn't find instructions, do you mind explaining to me how? Thank you!

[IHEARTBLK]

Hi, it’s really great to see someone working on the Passion mod again. It’s my favorite mod - lightweight, clean, and without unnecessary features that slow the game down. I also really appreciate that the whole vampire thing has been removed.

 

However, unfortunately, it doesn’t seem to be working properly for me right now. My sims constantly get stuck wearing strap-ons, and all animations freeze after about one second, no matter which ones I try. In general, the mod doesn’t seem to function correctly. I’m only using your mod together with Custom Trait Manager. I really like how everything is organized, though. Is the setting that controls which clothing should be used being ignored in the latest update?

 

Here is a video

 

I’m using this mod as a body default replacement, but seams appear on the feets and torso when only specific clothing items are removed. I’d also really prefer the settings for which clothing sims should use during Passion interactions not to be ignored.

 

Also, it would be great if object-based animations could be supported, similar to KinkyWorld. There’s a popular animations that uses the cellphone from The Sims 3: University Life, which is widely used in other animations, but it doesn’t seem to work in Passion. For example, the (KW) Male Handjob animation by Amra72 uses it - the last screenshot shows how it’s supposed to look:

 

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Edited April 11 by IHEARTBLK

[ptsdfromhome]

Unfortunately the latest version doesn't seem to be working well for me either. I tested it briefly yesterday and there was a problem with the sound during animations. My sim was making the same half second moan over and over again and the first time the animation froze (no movement at all), at which point I had to reset the sim. The second and third time there wasn't any freezing but the sound issue was still there and I had to manually stop the sim by clicking the corresponding option in the pie menu, because he wouldn't do that on his own. 

[BorderofExtacy]

On 4/14/2026 at 7:20 AM, ptsdfromhome said:

 

 

On 4/11/2026 at 7:50 AM, IHEARTBLK said:

 

 

apologies for the delay in a hotfix for the animation issue - it was a crazy oversight on my part (i was an idiot and didn't test... animations that used furniture because my labrat save always opted for doing it on the front lawn)

but animation playback should less akin to a particle accelerator now ^^;

 

 

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Is the setting that controls which clothing should be used being ignored in the latest update?

yes, it was meant as more of an interim removal until i sorted out a more complex system for clothing removal combined with preferred outfits - i sort of realized i'd have to go in and refactor a bunch of settings, so i pushed the update as is.

 

i expected to get to the update sooner, but my mental health has been struggling after a handful of continuous family emergencies that are currently still ongoing x_x so i apologize for that

 

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Also, it would be great if object-based animations could be supported, similar to KinkyWorld. There’s a popular animations that uses the cellphone from The Sims 3: University Life, which is widely used in other animations, but it doesn’t seem to work in Passion. For example, the (KW) Male Handjob animation by Amra72 uses it - the last screenshot shows how it’s supposed to look:

 

this has been a lower priority fix - apparently, objects that can be summoned during passion are hardcoded (for... some fucking reason) on an internal list. ideally i'll make this tunable in the future as well as adding in missing things, like the university phone. other stuff just came up first

[IHEARTBLK]

Hey, first of all - thank you so much for the quick hotfix on the animation issue, it's really appreciated! And I'm sorry to hear about everything you're going through with your family, I hope things get easier for you soon. Take care of yourself.

 

Regarding the clothing setting - would it be possible to bring back the vanilla Passion option to have sims fully undress for all animations? I'm using a default body mod that conflicts with partial clothing removal, so my sims end up not fully naked even though that's what I'd prefer and set in the settings. The current settings don't seem to apply properly in my case.

 

It would also be great if you could add support for sex objects for Oniki Kinky, like the Natasha WoohooDoll and others that use Oniki Kinky sex interactions - the animations are already available. Right now, they just appear as decor in the game.

 

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Thanks again for all the work you put into this!

Edited April 20 by IHEARTBLK

[RandomModificatiomer21]

I'm having a lot of fun with this mod so far, it's far less abrasive than Kinkyworld but also has the same features, namely the animated sex aspect of course. With 4.1 I had some issues with stopping animations and having to reset sims to get them to stop freeze framing or humping the air. I think that may be fixed though, otherwise everything else is fine. I hope the work keeps up!

[NghtBloom]

Hi! Thank you so much for the mod

I am having an issue where my sims are ignoring the autonomy commands. When I alter the settings to disallow passioning on community lots, random sims will still woohoo around town ignoring the setting. 

 

Is there a way to fix this? Thank you!

 

Edit: An additional issue

 

Another issue is that the sims wear clothes when they shouldn't. When clicking take off top, bottom, or shoes, the sims stay fully clothed. I have to use graphicalxtc to switch to a nude outfit.

Edited April 25 by NghtBloom

[BorderofExtacy]

20 hours ago, NghtBloom said:

Hi! Thank you so much for the mod

I am having an issue where my sims are ignoring the autonomy commands. When I alter the settings to disallow passioning on community lots, random sims will still woohoo around town ignoring the setting. 

 

Is there a way to fix this? Thank you!

 

Edit: An additional issue

 

Another issue is that the sims wear clothes when they shouldn't. When clicking take off top, bottom, or shoes, the sims stay fully clothed. I have to use graphicalxtc to switch to a nude outfit.

 

i've gone ahead and added both these to the issue tracker, so i'll look into them when i'm able! 

 

for the former, it may have to do with refactoring i did to allow location-based autonomy to be more 'dynamic'. you can find tunings for lot types and traits in BORDEROFEXTACY_Settings.package - you can either specifically set certain public lots to encourage autonomy, or set bDefaultPublicScore to something like -9999 

 

while i had planned on tackling the bottom/top assignment next, i think it'd definitely be worth attending the settings and updating them x_x since a lot has changed, but i'd neglected to touch the settings much despite it

[NghtBloom]

Thank you so, so much for your help! I will try that and will report back if any issues are found!

[baldMoLeRaT]

On 12/9/2025 at 12:21 AM, Possumteeth said:

@BorderofExtacy Hey there, sorry for the ping but I read in the features that "Sim genitalia can now be modularly registered via a tuning file, allowing for integration with any bottom." I didn't really understand how to do that and couldn't find instructions, do you mind explaining to me how? Thank you!

Hi! Have you figured it out by any chance and if so, would you be willing to share?

[secretlovecaveletsgo]

I absolutely love what you're doing with this mod, but the penis meshes are hopelessly glitched out for me. I have cmar's morphing penis installed, along with the penis defaults included in the .zip files when I downloaded this, and since I think the mod defaults to using the latter, I'm left with my male sims starting out with an infinitely stretched out wall of pixels jutting out from between their legs whenever they passion. I'm also noticing that this is accompanied by a seam and jagged hips and legs, so it's definitely just... really broken. (Probably a mod conflict since both the provided peens and cmar's are default replacements? Removing the former, however, leaves me with dickless sims.) I have to use Nrass MasterController to switch them to their actual naked outfit to fix it and allow the animation to play out with all the right appendages present.
 

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(I even had one instance where the thing just blocked the entire screen.) If I take the sim into CAS like this, adding or removing any other CAS parts, like accessiories, causes it to change cardinal direction... sometimes it goes from piercing through the floor to impaling my poor sim's head and soaring through space...

 

I've tried playing around with modifying the mod's fallbacks and registering cmar's morphing penis as having the same "ErectSIMO" as the base object since it's all the same thing afaik, but since cmar didn't code the default replacement as an CAS object, I don't see any resource key to use for that.

 

The more I try to work around the issue, the more I start to wonder if this might be due to the "partial undressing" feature, since changing their outfits with Master Controller shows me that the problem is present in the undressed naked outfit my sims change into when they start passioning, but not when they're using their default naked outfit that they change into when they bathe/skinny dip/streak. I've also been having more minor aesthetic issues with the partial undressing in that it almost always seems to add new accessory items to my female sims for some reason, and sometimes causes their clothing textures to glitch and display patches of colors/shapes from other outfits.

 

If the partial undressing is the main culprit behind this (or at the very least would let me stop seeing these glitches if it weren't used), it would be really great if the mod could give you the option to toggle partial undressing on or off. Even without these problems, I often have sims leaving on accessories that act as undershirts, underwear, etc., that really breaks the immersion of realistic gameplay when a sim is somehow making babies with the required genitalia of theirs completely clothed/covered up...

 

In the meantime, if anyone knows what I gotta do to resolve the attack of the javelin dicks, that would be hugely appreciated!!!

Edited June 12 by secretlovecaveletsgo

[secretlovecaveletsgo]

On 5/11/2026 at 10:57 PM, baldMoLeRaT said:

Hi! Have you figured it out by any chance and if so, would you be willing to share?

 

I can't help with explaining how to do that, but the instructions are here https://gitgoon.dev/BorderOfExtacy/BOEPassion/wiki/Body-Tuning

[Meadowthorne]

My game isn't registering the mod - I have it in my packages, but when the game launches it's not showing up in the scripts list popup