how do i turn select my pawn for hero mode?

[jkky12]

the settings is turned on but its not showing in the menu

[kronoblaster]

assuming your rjw is set up correctly (correct load order, and all that) there should be a heart icon when you're in a game,
there will be a star with a circle around it like the icon of rimworld, underneath look for your pawn and click the box. once you do its perma locked to that pawn. unless you break the game or the pawn dies iirc.

(I don't feel like opening the game i have too many mods to get pics for it.)