Well I'm completely stuck...

[AnoniGuy]

Ok, so I'm completely new to Skyrim Adult modding, new to Skyrim modding in generally actually. I guess my problem is i'm really unsure on what mods to install, what combinations are best and compatibility. I'm a gay male, so im looking for something specifically for that. And I guess some realistic male body mods. Are there any mods that exist where you don't have to use spells to initiate sex too?

[Adam Jensen]

It really depends on what you are looking for. By telling me you are gay, I can point you towards Sexlab and Sanguine's Debauchery. You could also use Flavored Souls Male nude bodies. Beyond that I dunno what else I can tell you. What are you looking for in general, besides sexmods?

 

If you are looking for questmods, then you have to download Wysmtooth and Moonpath to Elsweyr. If you are looking for graphics and have the pc power for it, then Skyrim 2K textures is what you need. If you are looking for player homes, Reaper's the dark tower and Leveler's tower are excellent.

 

Ohh and since you want to initiate sex without spells, download Sexlab Romance. Kinda forgot to mention that you should also download SKSE and SkyUI.

[Monsto Brukes]

I'll bet there's a mod somewhere (probably japanese heh) that will exchange in-game females with males. 

 

Just sayin.

[dedder]

For the male body I suggest this: 4uDIKs Real body -4RB-

 

For the sex mod I would suggest this: [WIP]SexLabWorkingGirl ver.1( April 25, 2013)

 

But you will need to install the framework too : Skyrim SexLab - Sex Animation Framework v1.0/Rev4c

[AnoniGuy]

It really depends on what you are looking for.

 

I guess I'm looking for a mod which allows me to engage in as realistic sex as possible, but not TOO realistic to the point where I have to earn it. SexChat looks great but it doesn't look like the author is going to update it anytime soon. I'm also stuck for choice when it comes to naked model and texture replacements, although the one dedder suggested looks pretty good. There are aspects of some that I like and some I don't like.

 

I also wouldn't mind more realistic girls too, since then they wont look out of place with the males, but I'd rather not engage in straight sex due to my preference.

[Blackbryre]

I would probably recommend using: http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/2488/? for general male improvements (though a lot is probably up to personal taste). There's an erect version for obvious purposes.

 

There's also this: http://www.loverslab.com/topic/11692-revealing-male-armors/

 

Installing something like Caliente's body mod (http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/2666//?) would do the trick for better looking women - in truth you can go a lot further, like adding bouncing breasts, but you can find out about that in loads of resources here

 

I'd suspect that SexLab is the way to go, as it has plenty of customisable settings for sexual preference, such as disabling M/F and allowing M/M. Lover's Hook puts in place a system for your character to "learn" new positions from watching or participating. I'd recommend SexLab Romance over the chat version, as it's currently supported, and also has customisable settings for persuasion difficulty (though I don't think that it supports M/M or F/F dialogue yet). If you want point and shoot style sex () then I recommend using SexLab MatchMaker: it's literally just a set of spells to select your partner and initiate.

 

To install SexLab and it's associated plugins, you'll have to go about installing items like SKSE and FNIS. I'm sure you can google up a guide for either of those, but each has ample info on their readmes and description pages. With luck, you'll be pegging your housecarl in no time!

 

Hope that helps.