Need help choosing a role for a male character

[kanekiOgava]

Hello, friends, recently I wanted to create my first assembly of mods for adults, but usually on such problems the goal is lost, the problem is that I installed everything correctly, but being a male character I play a female role, I turned off everything that is possible, everything works for everyone, and I can not find a solution, because there is no one on the Internet, please help me solve this, I will be very grateful