3 issues I can't figure out how to resolve

[MGUnkown]

So I've got 3 issues I can't seem to resolve.

 

1. no matter what, I cannot get Calyps strap-on to conform to my bodyslide preset (It's just curvy), I've rebuilt it multiple times and directly messed with the files but no matter what it still clips through the asses of every female in my game.

 

2. every time I use a shout, I get staggered. this is the only really annoying one, it can make some combat situations pretty frustrating.

 

3. Can't interact with certain world objects (crafting benches, forges, chairs, any objects that trigger player animations) when loading a save. this doesn't affect doors, chests, or anything that doesn't trigger animations. No button prompt appears when looking at these objects. I've tried EnablePlayerContros and player.tai commands after searching on google but they did not work. the only fix I've found is to use RecycleActor on my character, but this messes with DD animations and some inventory items

 

 

Edit: Load order ( Warning, long)

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Dawnguard.esm
HearthFires.esm
Dragonborn.esm
Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp
CC'sEnhancedOreVeinsSSE-HearthfirePatch.esl
ZaZAnimationPack.esm
MajesticMountains_Landscape.esm
MajesticMountains_Moss.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Resources.esm
IHarvest.esl
SexLab.esm
SexLabAroused.esm
SexLab - Sexual Fame [SLSF].esm
Perfect Terrain LOD.esm
Devious Devices - Assets.esm
Devious Devices - Integration.esm
Devious Devices - Expansion.esm
Devious Devices - Contraptions.esm
FlowerGirls SE.esm
NoHornsDragonReplaceSkeleton.esp
OSA.esm
Ecotone Dual Sheath.esl
SkyUI_SE.esp
SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp
ELFX - Exteriors.esp
ELFX - Weathers.esp
Immersive Wenches.esp
Vivid WeathersSE.esp
Improved Eyes Skyrim - Serana.esp
Improved Eyes Skyrim - Vamp.esp
Improved Eyes Skyrim.esp
MariEyes.esp
dark face fix.esp
HearthFire Fixed.esp
Present4You.esp
sr_FillHerUp.esp
Satan_maid.esp
DeadlySpellImpacts.esp
DeadlySpellImpacts - Two Fire.esp
WetFunction.esp
EnhancedLightsandFX.esp
mihailtreeofsouls.esp
Weapons Armor Clothing & Clutter Fixes.esp
DepthsOfSkyrim.esp
Medieval Lanterns of Skyrim.esp
SD Cages.esp
Book Covers Skyrim.esp
SD Cages - Badassless Patch.esp
ELFX Fixes.esp
CG4 Fx_SnowEffectsMerge.esp
Better Dynamic Snow SE.esp
WhiterunImmersiveSexualPlayground.esp
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp
3BBB.esp
UIExtensions.esp
AddItemMenuSE.esp
mcgDwarvenDeviousCuirass.esp
ZAPFurniturePlacer.esp
MaximumCarnage.esp
Savage Wolves and Feral Foxes.esp
RealRabbitsHD.esp
DynamicCartHorses.esp
shadowmere_replace.esp
WICourierRadiant.esp
UniqueBarbas.esp
GoToBed.esp
SleepForMeNow.esp
BlendedRoads.esp
Fluffy Snow - BlendedRoads Patch.esp
Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer.esp
Blue Fire Magic - Fire.esp
Blue Fire Magic - Frost.esp
Spank That Ass.esp
Carry_on_LevelUp.esp
SLSFFameComments.esp
BarenziahQuestMarkers.esp
MF_SpectatorCrowds.esp
Chesko_WearableLantern.esp
FNIS.esp
imp_helm_legend.esp
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SLACS.esp
SLSO.esp
TKDodge.esp
KSHairVanilla1.esp
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SexLabHorribleHarassment.esp
SLDrunkRedux.esp
hearthfireextended.esp
sanguinesDebauchery.esp
BirdsAndFlocks_SSE.esp
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Laura's Bondage Shop.esp
SexLab_Dialogues.esp
mihailcyrodiiliandeer.esp
SLPrivacy.esp
DeviousFollowers.esp
Immersive Weapons.esp
ScopedBows.esp
Skyshards.esp
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kal_LolaAddon.esp
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Recorder Follower Base.esp
Daedric Bitchs.esp
adcSexlife.esp
DD_Helpers.esp
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SLALAnimObjBillyy.esp
SexLabDefeat.esp
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SeeEnchs.esp
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DW.esp
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KS Hairdo's.esp
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ThaneWeaponsReborn.esp
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XPMSE.esp
Apophysis_DPM_SE.esp
RaceMenuHH.esp
Justice Glass Armor.esp
Justice Stalhrim Armor.esp
OblivionWeapons.esp
KSHairdosSMP.esp
Bijin Warmaidens.esp
EclipseLydia.esp
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LaFemmeLycana.esp
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Runandwalkpaces.esp
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SimpleSlavery.esp
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LoversComfort.esp
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RealisticWaterTwo.esp
ELFX Fixes Ragged Flagon Fix.esp
WACCF_BashedPatchLvlListFix.esp

[Dead Endv1]

I have the shouting issue as well. As far as I can tell, at least for me the stagger is caused by wearing a corset.  

[brewha666]

As to issue 1, have you tried making a fresh bodyslide for it in outfit studio? Like copying the bone weights and all that?