New to modding, need some help getting some stuff to work

[whatever696]

I’ve always wanted to get adult mods for Skyrim, and have recently decided to, with Skyrim SE. I’ve downloaded several mods and have gotten them to work to some extent, but others don’t seem to work at all. I downloaded Gay Sextalk but I can’t seem to trigger it. I downloaded M2M but can’t seem to get any of the animations to proc. I downloaded AP but it occasionally doesn’t work, and it says there are 148 inconsistencies in FNIS. 
 

I’m mainly just looking for anyone with plenty of adult-modding experience to essentially walk me through how to make these things work properly. Help would be much appreciated 

[whatever696]

Also: I downloaded the SexLab Matchmaker mod to test if it would work, and it actually doesn’t. I don’t know why it doesn’t work

[MadMansGun]

https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/3524-sexlab-more-nasty-critters-install-guide/