Animations freezing game, After first reload...

[ahnkra]

Okay so this is a weird bug, and I have no idea what is causing it.  Basicly any SL animation causes the game to freeze up, after saving and quitting the character for the first time.  By that I mean I can start a character, successfully create them, stand around in my jail cell and wait for all the mods to load, turn on framework, use the irresistible self spell and the animation triggers just fine.  Then I can load up all the animations, do all the settings for the other mods (like SLAC and Succubus) and run an animation again, and again it works just find.  But If I then save and quit game, load it back up and without changing anything just cast the same irresistible self spell the game freezes as soon as the animation starts (figured this out after 4+ hours of trying to debug different mods)

Can anyone tell me what this is pointing at, its not bad animations, its not too many animations, its not any of my SL mods because all of those have to be activated, Im not even sure it is a mod or mod conflict.  Its like maybe something to do with the script extender co save file, or something that auto corrupts the regular save file.  I really cant wrap my head around what Im seeing in a way that points me to a culprit.  Any ideas would be great.

My list of changes (somewhere in there im sure is the culprit)  Updated XP32 to latest version on nexus, Installed YA for SE, installed cumshot 2.1 (since RaceMenu finally got ported to SE with the needed NetImmerse Overide needed for it to work) Updated JContainers SE to latest version on Nexus, installed RaceMenu SE, and installed Birds of Skyrim.  For the record YA loads after XP32 at the bottom of my load order with only Live Another Life, cumshotSL and bdBirdsLAL esps loading after (the last two are "light" esp's and Vortex refuses to load them anywhere but last.