well if he doesnt want to celebrate i wouldnt celebrate 

if he dosn't want to be the center of attention, having more people there won't help. If you want to do something special, do something small. Bake a cake, maybe buy a present or two. But I wouldn't have a gathering

4 hours ago, daedal said:

well if he doesnt want to celebrate i wouldnt celebrate 

+1 with Daedal. We already know what effect such parties can produce over him.

My opinion is that birthdays, and attention on birthday should aim to be pleasant for the celebrated one. So skip whatever he doesn't likes, there's no point in doing it if that doesn't pleases him.

However, some well chosen gifs, with presents you know he'd appreciate/have use to/had wanted to in the past.... Might please him anyway provided you don't overdo it.

No Party just good food and a nice and tasty cake with the family. Your parents, boss, Fran, and Antonio.  Sound Good? 

Thank you all for wonderful advice. Boss's wife and me forged devilish plan that will surely work and will please both sides; my Prince and us.

@Jayomms> Something like that.

But, more about it .... later ....

5 hours ago, Tirloque said:

+1 with Daedal. We already know what effect such parties can produce over him.

 

 

> My heart bleeds when I remember his last birthday party, how much he suffered and how bitchy I treated him after he left the party. I will NEVER do that to him again. He is my blond angel whose love I'm not worthy.