WW: Seducee keeps leaving the room (solved)

[LLDDB2017]

I have two sims in the bedroom.  One sim is using the pole (Azmodans) and a sensual dance but the sim not active keeps getting the react to sex interaction and leaves the room.  Both sims have max sex level and nudity/exhibitionism.  Is there a setting somewhere I can use to keep this from happening?  I checked through the settings and nothing jumps out.  I disabled Join Requests as people were coming from all over.  The only other setting I can see having anything to do with it is autonomy, but as they are both household sims (roommates) I am not sure if that's it.

 

Any ideas?

 

Every single time.  I always find the answer only after asking.  So the solution is under sex settings Cheats (one place I didn't bother looking).  Sex Privacy can be enabled or disabled.