Problem with sexlabframeworks (last version)

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Hi everyone

 

I don't even know where to write this topic so I just posted here. (this is my first post sorry)

 

my problem is the following:

 

whenever I use sexlab framework (without additional mods), my male character is the one getting fucked by the women. Can somebody help me with this? My player is male khajjit and I have searched for this problem on this site without having a good solution.

 

Then afterwards i decided to add extra mods like the romance mod and matchmaker. I fixed the problem with matchmaker but I want to solve it without matchmaker. Normally with sexlabframework you have a debugger target spell that you can use on npc, I want to use that but only when I am the one fucking. Matchmaker was a possible solution but I can't choice wich sex positions. 

 

Everytime I go to "animation director" and select a sex position it just change randomly after using the debugger target on someone. 

 

My second question: what does the XPMSE do? i first downloaded sexlabframework first then download the mod xpmse skeleton. In the mcm "install" button there is no option. it is just empty

 

Last question: how can I produce voices with the "romance mod" when asking sex with npc

 

Thanks in advance