New to modding, Help would be appreciated ^_^

[REKTTTT]

For skyrim I downloaded NMM to manage my mods and I am very confused why everything isn't working right. I do not have access to my PC rn but I believe I had Sexlab, Sexlab defeat, SOS, The required sky thingy and script thing, bodyslider which i set up with random options cause idfk what they are. Tmrw I will try to share screenshots but basically after a long time I got the sexlab animations to work, Then I realized I had to get a nude mod and physics mod for it to actually work. So I got the 2 recommended ones on the original sexlab post. Now a lot of the time the guy or my girl character is not positioned right maybe 3 cm off which looks really bad, the boobs have no nipples its just flat skin xd, the vag texture seems glitched and in sex my stomach or boobs or something glitches the fuck out and stretches then doesnt move. Pls help ;( idk wtf to do. Sexlab defeat appears in mod menu but I click install in game and the notification doesnt come up.

[Mammaluigi9433]

Nexus mod manager is nice but I wouldn't recommended it idk how many mods you have but learning mod organizer is so much easier and can prevent conflicts with other mods . Also use xpmse as a skeleton make sure it's on the bottom of the load order and no sos or hdt are over writing it and use fnis every time you install animations to get the good stuff aligned and Skelton arm patch when running fnis

Also reinstall defeat as for the boobs and the vagina not aligned correctly it's prob the Skelton reinstall and then run fnis again make sure xpmse is below sos and what not and only 1 body mod at a time unp and cbbe together fucks them up