Can't switch player's gender?

[SeveN085]

I don't know how to explain it but, after updating to v161b (was using v160 hotfix2 before) animations with more than 2 actors are not working for me. Normal animations with 2 actors (set by "N" button and then animations editor) are working well, but if I want to set something with more than 2 actors with sexlab mass match maker, the 2 guys will either masturbate or start fucking each other and my female character will do nothing. I figured it out it is maybe because of player's gender in sexlab MCM is set to male, so I tried to change it, but if I change it to female, and then exit MCM it will always switch back to male. 

[talon230]

Having the same issue as well, even tried to use SexLab Cumshot to force gender, didnt work.