many problem when play animations distance from actors not correct kiss and not good instruction for someone like me

[freemason]

HI guys i tried to talk to Ashal and Ark and none of them answered  me so i need your help i used NMM to install my mods First of all i dont now what should i install first (SOS or Skeleton or Sexlab framework) because NMM always ask me to overwrite some filles for example when i try to install Sexlab and SOS i tried many ways but none of them helps me because Some ways i tried i had CTDs and other ways i had incorrect animations for example when actors try to kiss each other actor kiss her head not her Mouth or when actor try to suck other actor penis his/her nose Collision with her/his penis not his mouth i tried Even hight actors option in sexlab menu but still i have this problem these pictures shows my problems please just someone help me thanks