Proper mod order?

[hawk5005]

00  Skyrim.esm
01  Update.esm
02  ZaZAnimationPack.esm
03  SexLab.esm  [Version 1.39]
04  SexLabAroused.esm
05  Devious Devices - Assets.esm  [Version 2.7.0]
06  Devious Devices - Integration.esm
07  Unofficial Skyrim Patch.esp  [Version 2.0.3]
08  Dawnguard.esm
09  Dragonborn.esm
0A  hdtHighHeel.esm
0B  ApachiiHair.esm
0C  Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm
0D  SexLab sx3.esp
0E  SexLab_Paycrime.esp
0F  SexLabDefeat.esp
10  SexLabUtil1.esp
11  ZazResources.esp
12  RaceMenu.esp
13  RaceMenuPlugin.esp
14  SkyUI.esp
15  Devious Devices - For the Masses II.esp
16  Captured Dreams.esp
17  Devious Deviants.esp
18  sanguinesDebauchery.esp
19  SDpatch - dawnguard.esp
1A  SDpatch - dragonborn.esp
1B  SDpatch - frostfall.esp
1C  Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
1D  SC07SexLabRandomAttack.esp
1E  SexLab Submit.esp
1F  xazPrisonOverhaul.esp
20  Predator Vision.esp
21  FNISspells.esp
22  Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp  [Version 2.3.5]
23  dd-sd1-compatibility-patch.esp
24  GagSFX.esp
25  mslDeviousCaptures.esp
26  SexLab Trainers.esp
27  Alternate Start - Live A Deviant Life.esp
28  Submit belt.esp
29  SexLabDangerousNights.esp
2A  Apropos.esp
2B  SexLabMiscellaneousFeatures.esp
2C  DD - Interactions.esp
2D  DeviouslyHelpless.esp
2E  submitdd_ff.esp
2F  Bashed Patch, 0.esp
 

This is how my mod list looks at the moment. Sorted by BOSS. However, when I try to complete the Forbidden Tome Quest, I crash. Sometimes I crash during a submit animation, or when bandits see me wearing an armbinder.

If I change the mod order so that the orange mods become green, most of the green ones become orange. There is no way of pleasing them.

Could anyone suggest a better mod order?

[brandmark]

I'm also having problems with my load order. Just downloaded BUM but 2 mods don't want to cross paths.  ZaZAnimations is in esp form instead of esm form (I think) and Devious Devices-Integrations wants to be below it but they won't get above and below each other no matter what I do.  Thank you for posting your load order Hawk. I wish I could achieve that! I have FNIS 5.02 and many of the sexlab mods that all work together pretty good except the above 2.  I also can't get bandits of forsworn in a 3-way; just draugr and falmer. Appreciate what you could do for us!