Looking for modlist advice: AI NPCs + emergent adventure + custom jackal-eared character (SE/AE)

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I have a pretty specific request, and I'd be glad if you could help.

I'm looking to build a Skyrim SE/AE modlist (GPU: [NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3050 Laptop GPU]) around a long-form, character-driven adventure. Here's what I want it to include:

1. Character: a slender, androgynous adult male with jackal (or similar canine) ears and a tail, with proper physics. I'd like good-looking body/face mods and a solid visual overhaul (ENB or Community Shaders, HD textures, etc.).

2. AI NPCs: I want to use an LLM-based mod (Mantella, CHIM, SkyrimNet or similar) so NPCs can hold real conversations, remember my actions, and start spontaneous interactions on their own.

3. Dynamic events: random quests or encounters that make the world feel alive. I'm not sure whether a quest-generation mod would actually improve the setup, so I'd appreciate honest opinions.

4. Story premise: I'd like to be able to end up captured and serve as the favored companion of a powerful, kind-but-dominant noblewoman, develop a long-term romantic relationship with her, and later have adventures both inside her estate and beyond it. This should happen naturally through gameplay (e.g. a capture/enslavement framework), not as a rigid scripted quest.

5. Adult content (18+): a framework like OStim or SexLab with a wide animation range and support for diverse themes, including submission/dominance and bondage (Devious Devices or similar).

6. Spontaneity: I want the story to evolve through my choices, with emergent events (court intrigue, minor mischief, adventures with random travelers) rather than looping content.

My main questions:
• Which mods would you recommend for each of these parts?
• How well do AI mods currently integrate with OStim/SexLab and with capture/slavery frameworks?
• Are there compatibility or stability issues I should know about?

Is it realistic to combine all of this into one stable modlist? And if so, where would you suggest starting?

Thanks in advance!