What is currently the best and modern defeat mod today?

[zorpz0]

There are too many options and its a bit hard to choose. I have alot of other sexlab mods and I was just wondering if a defeat mod works for eveything or do you need a specific mod for each. I would also like it to be not as game breaking. I still want the possibility of death but sometimes a defeat is triggered and they take advantage and leave me behind instead, since Im doing a "skyrim is a rough cruel world mod"