Female sim miming a penis while masturbating

[panicattheoilrig]

As title says. If I click random she always mimes masturbating a penis. She's never had a penis.

 

Gender recognition is set to sex identity based

 

the sim is set to female body type in WW settings

 

the sim is set to 'can get pregnant' in CAS

 

'fit sex animations to sexual orientation' is checked

 

'adaptive roles reassignment' is unchecked

 

The above are all the fixes I found on here and Reddit for this issue. The issue prevails. I'm going insane.

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[SAFMeiko]

28 minutes ago, panicattheoilrig said:

As title says. If I click random she always mimes masturbating a penis. She's never had a penis.

 

Gender recognition is set to sex identity based

 

the sim is set to female body type in WW settings

 

the sim is set to 'can get pregnant' in CAS

 

'fit sex animations to sexual orientation' is checked

 

'adaptive roles reassignment' is unchecked

 

The above are all the fixes I found on here and Reddit for this issue. The issue prevails. I'm going insane.

First download the strapon for future use.

https://wicked.cc/accessories/azmodan22/strapon-collection-accessorie/

https://simfileshare.net/download/2759776/

(There are no other pages besides the simdulgence Patreon page, but the fact that it's here means that it's being distributed, right?)

Next, decide on a default strap-on for everyone to be female Sims.

While the animation is playing, press shift and select wicked → Stop automatic use. I'm pretty sure that's how it works.

[panicattheoilrig]

On 11/26/2025 at 6:09 AM, SAFMeiko said:

First download the strapon for future use.

https://wicked.cc/accessories/azmodan22/strapon-collection-accessorie/

https://simfileshare.net/download/2759776/

(There are no other pages besides the simdulgence Patreon page, but the fact that it's here means that it's being distributed, right?)

Next, decide on a default strap-on for everyone to be female Sims.

While the animation is playing, press shift and select wicked → Stop automatic use. I'm pretty sure that's how it works.

i already had the strapon animations downloaded - although it was the normal version, not the accessory-only version that you linked. i was thinking that this might be the issue, but i didn't want to delete the strapon mods because i sometimes play with my lesbian sims.

 

i'm not sure how to select default strapon, i know i saw this before but it's not an option now

 

the last part is not showing as an option in the shift WW menu or in the normal WW menu

[SAFMeiko]

3 hours ago, panicattheoilrig said:

i already had the strapon animations downloaded - although it was the normal version, not the accessory-only version that you linked. i was thinking that this might be the issue, but i didn't want to delete the strapon mods because i sometimes play with my lesbian sims.

 

i'm not sure how to select default strapon, i know i saw this before but it's not an option now

 

the last part is not showing as an option in the shift WW menu or in the normal WW menu

That wasn't clear enough.
Shift-click → wicked → disable animation. Something like that.
The strap-on option is in the body detail section (the tab where you change body parts).

[panicattheoilrig]

15 hours ago, SAFMeiko said:

That wasn't clear enough.
Shift-click → wicked → disable animation. Something like that.
The strap-on option is in the body detail section (the tab where you change body parts).

disable animation just stops half the male masturbation animations from playing, it doesn't solve the issue of why my sim, who in all settings is female, keeps miming a dick

 

that only gives me the option to change this specific sim's strapon

[SAFMeiko]

2 hours ago, panicattheoilrig said:

disable animation just stops half the male masturbation animations from playing, it doesn't solve the issue of why my sim, who in all settings is female, keeps miming a dick

 

that only gives me the option to change this specific sim's strapon

Isn't there a tab in there to disable just that animation? If that disables half of your animations, try downloading some more.
My male Sim also auto-masturbates to imitate my female Sim, but he ignores me.

Edited November 28, 2025 by SAFMeiko

[panicattheoilrig]

2 minutes ago, SAFMeiko said:

Isn't there a tab in there to disable just that animation? If that disables half of your animations, try downloading some more.
My male Sim also auto-masturbates to imitate my female Sim, but he ignores me.

no i mean like if i did that every time she mimed male masturbation i'd be getting rid of all the male masturbation animations one by one and my male sim would have nothing left lol. it doesn't address the actual issue. i have every single animation available downloaded because i want variety, i don't want to have to disable them because something is making them be used wrong.

[tommix01]

Some of the animations are quite old and from before the whole "male/female/futa" thing was a thing. Sometimes sims get confused about what role they are.

We also have a... small problem with males maintaining an erection during sex. Need an injection of mydixaflopin. x)

 

I've also seen a teen man who could not use the 'romance' interactions. Might be related to the 'related' bug again. At least once a female (with masculine features) teen werewolf futa developed the 'rotational sex trousers' bug again.

There is 'everyman' bleed from faeries. Everybody can use faerie diolouge.

Edited November 29, 2025 by tommix01
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[panicattheoilrig]

On 11/26/2025 at 5:33 AM, panicattheoilrig said:

As title says. If I click random she always mimes masturbating a penis. She's never had a penis.

 

Gender recognition is set to sex identity based

 

the sim is set to female body type in WW settings

 

the sim is set to 'can get pregnant' in CAS

 

'fit sex animations to sexual orientation' is checked

 

'adaptive roles reassignment' is unchecked

 

The above are all the fixes I found on here and Reddit for this issue. The issue prevails. I'm going insane.

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also adding on that:
- she plays a female role during sex with a male sim

- the male sim sees her as female body type (he gets the perfect pair emotion thing)

- she can perform female masturbation, she just picks male ones if i click random

 

someone please figure out what's going on lol. there's gotta be a setting somewhere that i'm missing

[tommix01]

On 11/30/2025 at 9:37 PM, panicattheoilrig said:

also adding on that: - she plays a female role during sex with a male sim

- the male sim sees her as female body type (he gets the perfect pair emotion thing)

- she can perform female masturbation, she just picks male ones if i click random

 

someone please figure out what's going on lol. there's gotta be a setting somewhere that i'm missing

If you click on the sim and go to 'wicked.../personalization/role assignment/gender role' and you can choose a gender for them. It *should* fix the penis masturbation; but it does not work for all animations.

[panicattheoilrig]

 

20 hours ago, tommix01 said:

If you click on the sim and go to 'wicked.../personalization/role assignment/gender role' and you can choose a gender for them. It *should* fix the penis masturbation; but it does not work for all animations.

thanks but i've already done this

[PeterMcPhallus]

On 12/3/2025 at 7:47 AM, panicattheoilrig said:

 

thanks but i've already done this

 

I just ran into this exact issue with a NPC sim (played, but not the active household). Why a female sim should randomly choose an animation designed for a male sim is beyond me, but I solved it by selecting "Directed Sex" and then choosing an female solo masturbation animation.