LoversLab newbie

[Strife4219]

Heck, and not just LL but getting ANY mods outside of Bethesda. Where would be a good starting place for a vanilla sex mod, nothing BDSM or Slave or anything like that. Not my kink (no kinkshaming here, just not my flavor)? Most everyhing I am seeing sounds so very technical.

 

I would appreciate any and all help.

[flutie]

 

Edited January 18, 2025 by flutie

[Pavlovian Afterdark]

Reading what you are looking for it sounds you dont need Sexlab, you need Osex. https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/17209

Now I dont know how to use it BUT I know it's the most "vanilla" of the adult mods. It's just good ole sex, no kinks no weird stuff, just adult animation for those who fall for serana or Erandur and want to be lovey dovey.

[Strife4219]

On 1/18/2025 at 4:14 PM, Pavlovian Afterdark said:

Reading what you are looking for it sounds you dont need Sexlab, you need Osex. https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/17209

Now I dont know how to use it BUT I know it's the most "vanilla" of the adult mods. It's just good ole sex, no kinks no weird stuff, just adult animation for those who fall for serana or Erandur and want to be lovey dovey.

 

Ok, so I have that installed now and I 'think' all prereq mods as well, but I see no prompting, options or anything. How do I know its working?

 

And on an unrelated note I downloaded SkyUI because it was needed for another mod, mayhaps that one, or another. I don't remember. Not a fan, but I can get used to it. But it lags a bit whenever I open a new inventory. Is there a way to smooth this lag out OR just have it installed but opt to use the old inventory and storage setup?

[Pavlovian Afterdark]

1 hour ago, Strife4219 said:

 

Ok, so I have that installed now and I 'think' all prereq mods as well, but I see no prompting, options or anything. How do I know its working?

 

And on an unrelated note I downloaded SkyUI because it was needed for another mod, mayhaps that one, or another. I don't remember. Not a fan, but I can get used to it. But it lags a bit whenever I open a new inventory. Is there a way to smooth this lag out OR just have it installed but opt to use the old inventory and storage setup?

Like I said on my og post. I dont know how Osex works since I use SL, BUT:

If you have Osex installed and no crashes, it means you also have the prerequisistes meaning OSA. The page for that mod has the instruction on how to use Osex since it's the interface for it. In this case this:

 

All that said. I know now that I gave you really oudated advice. Checking the Osex page and other places to get links to put here I found alot has happened that I had no clue about. So I am sorry but seems that now there's different versions like Osex and Ostim and whatnot, I am lost to all this new stuff with that/those mods. All I can point you is the newest one is https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/98163?tab=description.

I am sorry about that, never though much changed since 2020 when I tried it.

 

About the UI going slow. yea it's a pain I get you. I use this mod to make it go 60frames instead of the vanilla 30. https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/1766. If it's the other type of lag as in, it takes time to open the inventory, It's most likely you have a ton of items on you character inventory. Try leaving some stuff behind on your player's house. You loot goblin.

[Strife4219]

YYeah, no numpad. But I hated lacking one already. Didn't know this keyboard lacked one when I ordered it. I know it says it can work out the lacking, but this just gives me another reason to invest in a proper keyboard.

 

And I do appreciate your help. Outdated advice is still advice and effort. So thank you!

[Strife4219]

Oh yeah... and I felt called out... loot goblin, lol.

 

Ok, to be fair I AM. However I try to clear out my bags readily. I actually hate them being cluttered, and thats why I usually get a home asap and stash away the keep items.

 

lol, so yes, sometimes I do have loaded down chests, but usually not my direct inventory. And I was getting the lag on even opening my inventory and an empty chest. Now it might also just to be to many mods, but I also really don't think thats it. Yeah, I have alot, but MOST truly are just armor variant options.

[Godaux]

You can start with  Sexlab core to add later a lot of mods that allow gameplay related to attraction, arrousal... With it you can obtain gameplay mechanics for all tipe of sexual relations (including romantic and soft ones) based in the seduction process with out needs of involve in more "depraved" content. You can focus to in more simple mods like graphic effects mods  to apply cum over bodies or another visual effects