Followers remember when you strike them and warn you

[TajZ]

There was an LE mod I loved back when where if you hit your follower, they would chastise you for it. If you did it enough times, they would put you in an armbinder. What was that mod and is there an SE version?

[TajZ]

The mod was Deviously Enslaved, I found it on my LE version. It does work, sorta, on SE. I've had followers give the conversation to not hit them again BUT I have been unable to get bound no matter how many times I hit follower.

[itami_no_hana]

Alternatively you can try Submissive Lola, it has an option that the Mistress punishes you for hitting her.