PLS DEL - Need help with install order PLS Ignore for now may have found answer

[Justoutthere]

For the past few days I have been struggling with getting Sexlab and a ny addons working properly. I am sure it is to do with my inexperience rather than the mods themselves but would very much appreciate a little guidance.

 

I have decided to do a completely clean instal and am downloading from Steam as I type this out. How I have done this before (and had it working with SD) 

 

SKSE

SkyUI

Live another life (makes for a quick start)

FNIS (with creature addon)

Body mod (UNP BBP Pubic Hair 1)

XPMS1.92

Scholngs

SOS Skeleton fix

Add hdtPhysicsExtensions 12-6 to SKSE  plugins folder

All Unofficial updates (Skyrim, Dawnguard, Hearthfire, Dragonborn and then HRes)

Skyrim Hair Physics Project

HDT High Heels System.

Apachi Sky Hair Full 1.5 and Female 1.3

Zaz Amins.

Next I assume would be : Sexlab

 

And this is where I have problems, I do want creature involvement and did have it working previously but issues with other Mods were getting the system bogged down and sluggish and so decided to cull the unessercary stuff and only Install the needed.

 

The problem I have is which files do I need to install and in what order. The issues I have are mainly around creature anims not triggering and with so many individual files with potentially hundreds of orders and "do I over-write if asked" and TBH nearly 30 hours struggling to accomplish something over the weekend I decided to ask for help.

 

Thanx in advance for any suggestions as they will be much appreciated