Character's models arn't in the right spot

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I've been having a few issues with sexlabs and I can't find the answers anywhere

Whenever I start a sex scene, the animation starts playing, however they are always facing the wrong way and are apart from each other. Another issue I've been having is whenever I load into a file I installed sex labs onto, it will tell me it's outdated or missing even though i installed it not even minutes ago. If either of these have answers that would be great thanks