Looking for help finding mods that fits my vision

[Br-52]

Hi, 

I've just discovered LoversLab and I'm trying to orient myself through the vast range of possibilities here. While I get the main gist of the framework, finding mods that cater for the experience I wish to create is challenging, sooo much to go through. If anyone has a minute to spare for some pointers, that would be much appreciated. However, just as with modding in general I realize that the heavy lifting of figuring things out is obviously on me.

 

The type of NSFW experience I'd like to create is:

- Realistic, immersive and down to earth. No fuck or be fucked by everything everywhere.

- NPC's initiating interactions with the player character

- Reactions from the world on obscene behaviour at inappropriate locations

- A system for arousal, but without turning it up to 1000 and having it as something that takes over

- Sexual, but not sex-crazy

 

Some examples of situations I'd like to happen in my game (maybe this paints a better picture of the vision)

- Being in a bath, another visitor asks if I want to please them or vice versa (preferably with requests of what they want to do)

- Being defeated by bandits might result in captivity (I think Simple Defeat runs in this vein?) +1 on this if it not only leads to smut scenes, maybe defeat leads to some time in captivity, then you might be killed or sold off as a slave.

 

Would be very interesting to hear some insights from people who are more knowledgeable on what LoversLab mods have to offer. My current impression is that it's mostly about going hyper on the sexuality and turning it up to 11, while I would be looking for some more subtle layers where the main driver for both player and NPC characters isn't sex.

[Br-52]

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Being in a bath, another visitor asks if I want to please them or vice versa (preferably with requests of what they want to do)

Even better If this could be driven by reputation. NPC's are more likely to initiate flirts with a player character who got a bit of fame (playing as non-dragonborn) while more rude suggestions may be given to a player character who got a low rep. Is there even a reputation system that would cater for something like that?