Need for Create Sexlab animations and Blender rigs for sex

[Soberano Maligno]

I want to create a SLAL pack focused on

non-consensual handjobs and blowjobs on female with male and also female with creatures but my main problem is I can't find animation Rigs with a penis attached for use in Blender and since im new to modding and learning how to animate i have some doubts, I followed all the guides i can find and still have  doubts before i spend more time learning how to animate in Blender i need to make sure there is a way to make sex animations in Blender or I just need 3dsmax 2012 and im loosing time.

 1st doubt: is there a way to convert the ABC Rigs and the XPM skeleton rig on nexus for 3dsmax 2012 into a format Blender could use? I know there are online tools and blender scripts that can turn objets from .max to .fbx but i dont know if would work with these animation rigs 

 

2 Doubt: The rig i have currently in Blender is penisless and only male human can i animate a handjob scene with the girl moving her hand into the air where the penis would be and when i add the animation into the game would the animation show the penis i have currently installed in game? (Even if this work it would be probably very missaligned) 

The only alternative to this i guess i would need to import the Skeletons from the mods and create a Rig myself wich is probably very hard to do or would take me a lot of time since im learning, also i only have SSE version and i read that i need the LE version when importing stuff to make animations and then convert the animation to SSE

 

I also want to ask if somebody would share with me a way to get 3dsmax 2012 since its a pain to find and it would be the solution if i could just use 3dsmax, but the only way avaliable to get it its to Sail the seven seas, I know there has to be people on here who have a copy but i dont know if it is wrong for me to ask in case somebody has it and has paid for it and woulnt want to share it or if it is agaisnt the rules of the forum to ask this stuff sorry in that case. Anyway thanks and if you would like to see a heavy non-consensual handjob focused SLAL pack consider helping me please