major problems with sexlab framework

[j.smith42]

ok, to start out, let me tell you the basic problem.  when I run any animation that requires animations from sexlab I've run into a constant, persistant problem where the animations do not start.  If I do a full system clean, just after clicking on the dialog option to initiate sex it will begin the animation almost right away.  With some plug ins I have to be next to a bed, with others, I don't.  It's frustrating, because I think whatever problem I'm having is affecting all of my sexlab plugins.  

 

I can provide debug logs, and answer questions, but please help me.  

 

oh and by the way, yes I've run boss, yes I've run fnis, several times, run as administrator.

 

 

GameMode=Skyrim

Skyrim.esm=1
Update.esm=1
Dawnguard.esm=1
RaceCompatibility.esm=1
SexLab.esm=1
ZaZAnimationPack.esm=1
HighResTexturePack01.esp=1
HighResTexturePack02.esp=1
HighResTexturePack03.esp=1
RaceCompatibilityUSKPOverride.esp=0
SexLab Romance.esp=1
sanguinesDebauchery.esp=1
SexLabDefeat.esp=1
SexLab Submit.esp=1
SexLab Theft and Seduction.esp=1
SexLab Dangerously Nude.esp=1
SexLabProcreation.esp=1
SexLabMatchMaker.esp=1
LoversComfort.esp=1
SexLabUtil1.esp=1
SexLabSquirt.esp=1
younger_breton_females.esp=1
chesko_frostfall.esp=0
better dynamic snow.esp=1
higherlevelenemies.esp=1
lanterns of skyrim - all in one.esp=1
marriagedynamicoutfits.esp=1
morewar.esp=1
character creation overhaul.esp=1
SkyUI.esp=1
StrapOnbyaeonv1.1.esp=1
arbitraryfa - forsworn.esp=1
buildablehouse.esp=1
cco - permanent birthsigns.esp=1
gsrdivorce.esp=1
skooma.esp=0
uniquenpcsprotected.esp=0
campingkitnorthernranger.esp=1
detailed outskirts.esp=1
detailed cities.esp=1
sos - the dungeons.esp=1
sos - the wilds.esp=1
sos - civilization.esp=1
better hunting.esp=1
imp's more complex needs.esp=1
SexiSArrokAnimations.esp=0
azarhair.esp=1
Half Orc Race.esp=1
Monli.esp=1
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1
Start As Khajiit Female.esp=1
xce.esp=1
cco - diverse races and genders.esp=1
CharacterMakingExtender.esp=1
EnhancedCharacterEdit.esp=1
SkyrimSizesLore.esp=1
Clean Invisibility Effects plus Eyes Fix.esp=1
barenziahquestmarkers.esp=1
ZaZAnimationPackConfig.esp=0
PrivateNeeds.esp=1
MF_RadiantProstitution.esp=1
morthal woodland.esp=1
sky haven temple m&m.esp=1
skyrim roleplay camps.esp=1
skyrim roleplay camps2.esp=1
xazPrisonOverhaul.esp=0
unique villages shors stone retexture.esp=1
winterholdrebuilt.esp=1
SDpatch - dawnguard.esp=1
SDpatch - frostfall.esp=0
MaritalBliss.esp=0
SD_Imortal_Fix.esp=1
better crossbows.esp=0
bloodofthewild.esp=1
bloodofthewilddg+.esp=1
communitycollege.esp=1
detailed towns.esp=1
droba_the_skooma_merchant_whiterun.esp=0
fzguildoutposts.esp=0
fzguildoutpost_dlc01.esp=0
fzdbfalkreathresurrect.esp=0
immersive difficulty levels--high king.esp=1
marriageablefemalenpcs.esp=0
marriageablemalenpcs.esp=0
regnpiercings.esp=0
SexLabZaZAnimations.esp=1
themarriagebook.esp=1
vallespmodel.esp=0
whiterunsewer.esp=0
halfrace.esp=1

 

 

oh, and the inactivated mods are steam workshop, I can't get rid of them, but do not affect sexlab.