How do I allow lesbian marriage and concubines?

[Arilia]

I reformed my religion to embrace homosexuality, yet only men can form such relationships. My religion has equal gender status & concubinage, and realm has female-preference succession. Is it a problem with my load order?

 

• More Religion Tenets Slots
• Carnalitas
• Carnaliitas Slavery Expansion
• Carnalitas - Historical Slavery Doctrines
• Cheri - Carnalitas Dei
• Cheri - Daughters of Lust
• Harem Doctrines
• Submissive Partners

 

 

 

[Arilia]

I've tried swapping concubinage and gender equality with polygamy and female preference, but women still can't marry.

 

I remember being able to do this last time I played CK3... not sure what I'm doing wrong.

[Arilia]

I figured it out - Medieval Matriarchs split the homosexuality decisions between female and male versions, and the female version wasn't showing up. I needed to create a compatibility patch between Medieval Matriarchs and Carnialtis Dei.

[nYidentity]

With so many religion altering mods how do u keep them compartible so don't they overwrite the same tenets file?

I just used the Martiarchs mod + 1 selfmade mod where I just stole the UI from more tents+ (edit the matriarchs tenet file manually to allow for more slots.)

so its basically just 1 mod