Disable FF / MM and FM stuff?

[Uxot]

Im trying to make it so when defeat happens to me girls doesn't "rape me" also want FF off because my follower is getting nailed with invisible dick doing a M/F animation.. (M being a female.....)

I've disabled "Allow female to assault player" but it seems to not work,disabled all the FF/MM (don't think you can disable F/M anims since most of them got also the M/F tags..) Animations but then it does what it do to my follower,kinda annoying

Defeat and SexLab and fill her up is Baka edition.

I'd prefer if a female knocks me down that she just ignore/walks away (or instead of killing me lol)