Stretching HDT objects when changing.

[Qwert_yyy]

Hello, in general, I know that this topic has been endlessly chewed on, but I did not find at least one more or less self-confident answer.
I have more than 300esp (combined). Hundreds of connected substitutes and the like. Pretty voracious enb tetra. I don’t complain about fps and lags, because I spent a lot of time on optimization. gtx 1060 6gb, xeon e5 8 cores 2.9ghz.
I have extremely rare crashes and errors (unless I specifically look for them). In any case, my build is pretty stable in every way.

But there is a mod for HDT tails and ears. (marked as unremovable)
I loading the game and everything works great...
Starting the SexLab animation...
Tails and ears remain in the place where the character was undressed, and the base of the models is stretched from the place where the character was undressed, to himself, where he is currently located.
Once the animation is complete, the only way to fix it is to re-equip the tail and ears. Sometimes when refitting tails and ears, if we first put on the ears , and then the tail (or vice versa), then the ears will remain in the air (without stretching)(That is, depends on the order). But it is rare and not critical.

Everything is the same if you just remove the main armor from the character.
When changing the cell, all items are dressed and in good condition.
If, after this error, the items are re-equipped again, then after that, in this cell, this problem will not arise with this character.
No matter what item HDT, it happens with all things having physics. However, I have never had any problems with characters without HDT items.
If you set the option "Always remove" in Sexlab, then these items will be removed at the time of animation and accurately equipped after it is completed.

The question is not so much how to solve it, but how much this problem still remains unresolved, because I searched in all the forums, even those that indirectly relate to this problem. And I have never seen someone who said "oh I solved this problem." All topics ended with silence.
I don’t know why such a trifle touched me so much, but I can’t look at this shortcoming, against the backdrop of my entire process, this shortcoming is like an eyesore. (and I'm also a fan of ears and ponytails)

 

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