Black screen on load after SL use

[dngodog]

Okay so im not fully sure whats happening but will run down what leads up to this issue..

i can be playing my game for hours and no issues i've tested this multiple times and this happens 100% of the time. once i use Sexlab just once and then save my game also i usually change my sexlab settings for animations strip options etc etc, and then i save so i dont need to tweak MCM everytime and when i load it, it almost loads perfectly then just stays black screen with sound playing as if it were loaded correctly i can hear the rain and my followers but my game is frozen and i need to CTL+ALT+DEL to even get out of it

 

i dont have a modlist for you but for SL related stuff i use
SL framework
SL Romance
SL Music
SL Defeat

 

anyone have any issues like this? 
do you know what might be causing it?