Bisexual/Homsexual Coetus Anima Help

[Not Your Kind of People]

I'm currently playing a bisexual/homosexual leaning ruler and have the ability to take concubines/consorts of any gender what have you. My only issue is all my male on male sex scenes are initiated with my character on top and theirs on bottom and I'd like that to be the other way around. Is there any way to do this?

 

Any help would be much appreciated tyyy