Looking for a PC mod that works with Arroused & SexLife

[Sacona]

I've been trying to find a mod to allow my PC to initiate sex that's not obtrusive or too easy. I've been using SexLab Romance SE - Rekindled 0.5.5, but it doesn't interact with Sexlab Aroused Redux SSE or SexLab SexLife SE 1.4.2 beyond resetting their arousal to 0 once sex is over. I find it's also too easy to initiate sex even when it's set to its hardest difficulty. Are there any mods out there that match what I'm looking for? It would also be nice if it restored NPCs ability to approach my PC for sex as the latest version of SexLife apparently removed it before someone else converted it to SE.