Can't get female sim to masturbate in bed.

[meldoebel]

so i created a playlist, i made sure the animations were for female solo in bed, i click the bed, wicked, playlist, click my sim...then nothing. my sim does't even attempt it. it doesn't even show up in her actions que. then when i try and click the bed again, when i click wicked, i only have settings options, nothing else. ive checked all other settings and everything is enabled. any suggestions?