Trying to figure out where Sex Scene Framework should be in my plugin and load order

[whiskeyii]

Hey all,

So after some testing, it seems like Flower Girls is working a-okay, but Sex Scene Framework - Lore Friendly Relationships is causing CTDs all over Whiterun; it appears to be random, and can trigger from entering or leaving a house in Whiterun to just running around for a bit.

 

Having read the somewhat sparse mod pages, I'm a little confused as to where Lore Friendly Relationships should sit in my plugin order and in my load order. Currently I have 

 

(Lots of set up mods, fixes, etc.)

CBBE

Nemesis

(Nemesis PCEA Animation mods)

Flower Girls SE

Flower Girls NPC Overhaul w/ Bug Fix

Sex Scene Framework

Papyrus Util SE

Nemesis Output Folder

(Lots of NPC overhaul mods)

CBPC

HDT-SMP

CBBE 3BBB

SOS Full

SOS HDT-SMP

SOS Clothes Replacer

XP32 SSE

...

And then my Bodyslide Output way at the very bottom with the generated 3BBB bodies.

 

Is this roughly correct? It seems like when I put Lore Friendly Relationships between Sex Scene Framework and Papyrus Util SE, I get CTDs even if I move the Lore Friendly esp all the way at the bottom of my load order. past the Bashed Patch even. So I'm pretty stumped as to what I'm doing wrong here. Is there a way I could check in xEdit to see what's causing the issues? I don't have any mods that change the interior of anything in Skyrim, so I don't think it's the "persistent cell" issue I see cropping up a lot. Unless Go to Bed or Sleep Tight could be impacting that? If it helps, while I don't understand how to read it, my .NET Crash log has this to say:

"Unhandled native exception occurred at 0x7FF6BF23F4C1 (SkyrimSE.exe+BEF4C1) on thread 664!"