my sexlab animations doesn't work on the player

[LinkedLucid]

For some reason when i try to initiate a sex scene between my player and an npc they don't do anything continuing what ever they were doing.

yet when i initiate a sex scene between an npc and another npc it works perfectly. (i already ran fnis)

 

here is the load order

Skyrim.esm
Update.esm
Dawnguard.esm
HearthFires.esm
Dragonborn.esm
Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp=1
ApachiiHair.esm=1
ApachiiHairFemales.esm=1
ApachiiHairMales.esm=1
Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm=1
OSA.esm=1
LegacyoftheDragonborn.esm=1
Apachii_DivineEleganceStore.esm=1
Legendary Elder Scrolls Loading Screen.esl=1
Ecotone Dual Sheath.esl=1
GeneralDisplays.esm=1
Silverpeak Lodge.esp=1
EFFCore.esm=1
SexLab.esm=1
SkyUI_SE.esp=1
Vivid WeathersSE.esp=1
SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp=1
CBBE.esp=1
FNIS.esp=1
RaceMenu.esp=1
XPMSE.esp=1
RaceMenuPlugin.esp=1
SOS - Smurf Average Addon.esp=1
icepenguinworldmapclassic.esp=1
SexLabDefeat.esp=1
dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp=1
dD-Reduced Splatter Size.esp=1
dD-Reduced Wound Size.esp=1
RLO - Effects.esp=1
MassMatchMakerSE.esp=1
KS Hairdo's.esp=1
ZedUnlimitedWeaponEnchant.esp=1
SkyR - Riften Interiors.esp=1
SkyR - Solitude Interiors.esp=1
CollegeOfWinterholdImmersive.esp=1
SkyR - Windhelm Interiors.esp=1
SkyR - Whiterun Interiors.esp=1
Skyrim Immersive Creatures Special Edition.esp=1
EBT - IC PATCH.esp=1
RLO - Exteriors.esp=1
Improved Adoptions MERGED.esp=1
Eli_Breezehome.esp=1
SkyR - Riverwood Interiors.esp=1
SkyR - Windhelm Docks.esp=1
Undeath.esp=1
LC_BuildYourNobleHouse.esp=1
SkyR - Solitude Docks.esp=1
Thunderchild - Epic Shout Package.esp=1
Legendary Skyrim Crossbows.esp=1
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp=1
Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp=1
Guard Dialogue Overhaul.esp=1
HearthfireMultiKid.esp=1
Do You Know Who I Am.esp=1
Immersive Weapons.esp=1
Visible Favorited Gear.esp=0
The Brotherhood of Old.esp=1
Immersive Encounters.esp=1
Silverpeak Lodge - Respawns.esp=1
zMirai.esp=1
Cloaks.esp=1
Immersive Patrols II.esp=1
SexLab-AmorousAdventures.esp=1
Cloaks - Dawnguard.esp=1
Cloaks - USSEP Patch.esp=1
zzEstrus.esp=1
Apachii_DivineEleganceStore_JoP_Patch.esp=1
Joy of Perspective.esp=1
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp=1
ScopedBows.esp=1
MiraakFollower.esp=1
DBM_IW_Patch.esp=1
InsanitySorrow Weapons Pack.esp=1
Apachii_DivineEleganceStore_Patch.esp=1
Recorder Follower Base.esp=1
SOS - Shop.esp=1
Bijin Warmaidens.esp=1
Realistic-Voice.esp=1
UIExtensions.esp=1
AddItemMenuSE.esp=1
InigoPerkPointGiver.esp=1
Runandwalkpaces.esp=1
Killable Children.esp=1
Predator Vision.esp=1
FaceMasksOfSkyrim.esp=1
KatanaCrafting.esp=1
DIVERSE SKYRIM.esp=1
AP Skyrim SE.esp=1
Bijin NPCs.esp=1
Bijin Wives.esp=1
Serana.esp=1
CiceroFemaleSE.esp=1
InfiniteShouts.esp=1
dD-No Spinning Death Animation.esp=1
ScopedBows_EagleEyeTweak.esp=1
SOS Equipable Schlong.esp=1
RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp=1
EpicHacksM.esp=1
sandboxcylinderheight.esp=1
P1FlyingRing.esp=1
Marry Me Serana.esp=1
SPTUnlimitedAmuletsSE.esp=1
SPTUnlimitedRingsSE.esp=1
FasterHorses.esp=1
SneakToolsSE.esp=1
UnlimitedSummons.esp=1
Ecotone Dual Sheath Patch.esp=1
honedmetal.esp=1
FNIS_PCEA2.esp=1
DummyPlugin.esp=1
360WalkandRunPlus-RunBackwardSpeedAdjust.esp=1
MiniBikini.esp=1
azelfollower.esp=1
HearthfireMultiKid_LastName.esp=1
Skyrim Unadoption Mod.esp=1
cmuse_yumi_adoptable.esp=1
Immersive Shouts.esp=1
FusRoDoor.esp=1
Souyu_Matasan.esp=1
SOSRaceMenu.esp=1
DBM_Undeath_Patch.esp=1
Phenderix Magic World.esp=1
FNISspells.esp=1
alcoholiceffect.esp=1
Maxine - Zombie Follower.esp=1
DBM_ImmersiveCollegeofWinterhold_Patch.esp=1
KNM_AcalyphaFollower.esp=1
The Paarthurnax Dilemma.esp=1
RidDwarven.esp=1
ColossusMount.esp=1
Sweet&Sexy Lingerie.esp=1
Shindara.esp=1
j3x-autocrossbows.esp=1
My Home Is Your Home.esp=1
Apocalypse - Magic of Skyrim.esp=1
ForgottenMagic_Redone.esp=1
DwemerMechanical.esp=1
Monika.esp=1
raeza.esp=1
ShindaraHeelsOutfit.esp=1
dovahkiinrelax.esp=1
Animated Featherd wings.esp=1
Angelic_Demonic.esp=1
EternalShineArmorAndWeaponsSse.esp=1
Real Flying.esp=1
Animated Dragon WingsSE.esp=1
DragonWingRingsSSE.esp=1
DaedricGlowSets.esp=1
ScopedBows_ArrowTweaks.esp=1
Elemental barrage.esp=1
Magickamaster.esp=1
StrangeRunes.esp=1
SilentArrows.esp=1
Osare Culort Outfit.esp=1
[COCO]ms_shirt.esp=1
Common Clothes and Armors.esp=1
DBM_CloaksofSkyrim_Patch.esp=1
DBM_IA_Patch.esp=1
DBM_SMIM_Patch.esp=1
AIO SE TATTOOS.esp=1
Bewitching Clothes.esp=1
All Geared Up.esp=1
VioLens SE.esp=1
InsanityMask.esp=1
BiscuitsBikini.esp=1
UnlimitedEnchantmentsMod.esp=1
HVN3PC.esp=1
Tainted_Blood.esp=1
Growl - Werebeasts of Skyrim.esp=1
Tainted_Blood_Growl_Compatibility_Patch.esp=1
SkyR - Windhelm Interiors USP patch.esp=1
VanderolTattoos.esp=1
Bandages.esp=1
LinkleOutfit.esp=1
dwarvenrifle.esp=1
Dark Envoy.esp=1
TheEyesOfBeauty.esp=1
Ordinator - Perks of Skyrim.esp=1
Apocalypse - Ordinator Compatibility Patch.esp=1
Forgotten Magic - Ordinator Compatibility Patch.esp=1
CWIOrdinatorPatchSSE.esp=1
Sacrosanct - Vampires of Skyrim.esp=1
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1
RLO - Interiors.esp=1
Relationship Dialogue Overhaul.esp=1
EFFDialogue.esp=1
RDO - CRF + USSEP Patch.esp=1
RDO - USSEP Patch.esp=1
RLO - Illuminated Spells.esp=1
RealisticWaterTwo.esp=1
TKAA.esp=1
HNVMain.esp=1
HNVNord.esp=1
SLALAnimObj.esp=1
SLAnimLoader.esp=1