Requesting help for Multiple Marriage Mod, Multiple Adoptions and a few other random issues with Argonians

[bex0r]

Good afternoon, everyone. I'm Bex and I am brand new to Skyrim. My spouse recently surprised me with a brand new desktop computer, which is awesome because my old one was obsolete years before Skyrim LE was even released. The last PC game I really played was Half-Life 2, so let's all take a moment of silence for a stupidly long gaming dryspell. ?

My new rig can handle a lot and I've fallen head-first down the rabbit hole in modding the ever-loving shit out of Skyrim SE (with all the DLCs.) I have seen this forum mentioned multiple times as a community that is super helpful and very active, so I'm excited to dig in and meet everyone.  Hopefully I can find some answers to a couple of issues I am having.

 

I appreciate immersion and I really loved the idea of the multi-marriage mod (here: https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/8589 ) as well as the multiple adoption mod ( here: https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/3862 ) 

For one thing, these mods don't seem to be compatible with each other. I can get the multiple adoptions to work by itself, but not when installed with multiple-marriage. I have seen some references to a patch for this on other forums but it's been hard to tell if people were talking about LE or SE. Any ideas? Is there a different multiple-adoption mod that is superior?

For another, I am also having an issue with the multiple marriage mod  where as soon as I marry someone and finish the wedding ceremony I can no longer use any crafting equipment such as the grindstone, tanning rack, mining ore, workbench, etc. The animation starts and crafting menu appears for a second or two but then backs out as though I've cancelled it, even when I haven't. Does anyone know of any fixes for this, or maybe a better multiple marriage mod?

 

If it makes a difference, I am using EFF for followers, mainly because it seems to be the most compatible with Convenient Horses, which I also use. I tried AFT for followers but I was having issues with it. I also have Flower Girls (with AA) installed and it seems to be working well, though I wish there were more options for male/male scenes and women using the strapon on men. I imagine that there is probably a bunch of stuff in the SexLab mods to allow for that but I haven't gotten that far in modding yet.

I use NMM for all my mods but I can change to something else if I need to. I like it because it does the FNIS generator thing automatically which is damn convenient.

I am also on the lookout for someone who takes donations for Preset commissions, as I have an idea for a character I would like made for me to play but I do not have sufficient skills to make her with the RaceMenu. If anyone likes making custom Argonians please point me to them. 

 

Speaking of Argonians, I am using the mod for digitigrade Argonian feet (here: https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/1975 ) but the textures clash with SoS. I can either have properly textured feet or properly textured schlongs but not both. Like any self-respecting monster-fucker I've opted for nice schlongs but I'd appreciate some help with the feet.

Also, is there a fix for beast race tails so that they don't clip through other characters during sex scenes?
What about a fix for sex animations incorporating furniture in modded buildings, such as Myrwatch and Hendraheim from the Creation Club additions?

One last thing, out of curiosity, is it possible to download someone's character preset and turn it into a standalone follower?

That's all I can think of for now. Thanks for taking the time to read all that, and I will be super grateful for any advice or solutions. Cheers!