Dream of Surrender - how to become "Owned"

[vicchan85]

Hello, I am from Italy  I play the sims since EVER and lately I discover the new "adult" world. I am following the aspiration of MASOCHIST with Dream of Surrender Mod but I don't have the chance to let my sim become a submissive. I've searched everywhere a sort o "how to" but it seems to be impossible!! My sim can only be a Dominant, following the suggestions around the web, and I am wondering if there is a very specific walkthrough the aspiration (or you know how to do it) even because I dont want to use cheats (it miss all the fun).

Hope that someone can help me! 

Cheers

Vicchan