Sex & Living: Marriage and family

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Introduction:

This mod concept is an idea of overhauling the marriage features of skyrim into a more dedicated and committing playthrough or section within the game. No more Marrying someone and than running off forgetting about them. This mod will add the ability to be proposed to, have dates, a settled life and more with a range of different personality types that will change the experience of each relationship and marriage. This mod also overhauls children allowing couples to ahve their own children and have families develop and age.

 

MARRIAGE SECTION

Dating:

No more wearing an amulet completing one quick quest and bedding whoever you want in the city. Instead everyone has there own opinion of you on a scale of 0 to 100. Depending on your race everyone will have a different starting point. For example nords in windhelm may start with a higher opinion of you if you were a nord but may have lower opinion if you were an argonian. From the initial meeting of viewing your race you can introduce yourself to the npc who may respond in a nice way or tell you to go bother someone else. After introductions have been made you can say you would like to get to know them and be able to ask them questions and answer questions they have on you. Answering and asking the right questions will increase their opinion. Once their opinion is past a certain point you can ask them out on a date. You can pick what you will do on the date or you can let them pick what you will do. Once arranged you will get a quest called date which give the time and location of the date. Arrive on time and enjoy the date will increase their opinion even more fail to show up will have a massive impact on your relationship but be careful what you do during the date as you could ask the wrong questions or do the wrong actions and have a negative impact on your relationship as well. At the ending of the date depending how well you do you may be asked to walk your date home (if you are a male character or portray yourself as a strong fighter) or they may offer to walk you home (if you are female or they don’t see you as a strong fighter).Whe you arrive at the home you or them may offer/hint at staying the night, however offers the other gets to accept or decline which could have a small impact on your relationship. Before leaving the date location they might or you could propose staying the night together. At this point you will get to choose your home(if you have one in the city or near) or theirs (if you don’t have a home or in a village like riverwood). Once there you will have sex with each other before being able to sleep together for the night before leaving.

 

Date opportunities:

Local Inn drinking - Go to the local Inn for a drink and a chat

Local Inn meal - Go to the local Inn and have a nice meal

Walk in the wilderness - Take a stroll through the wilderness. Never know might get a little wild yourself if your lucky

Bounty hunting - Work together on a daring adventure and track down a bandit with a bounty. Split the reward and you might get a bonus payment

Fucking session - All somepeople want is to fuck or be fucked. Spend the date time naked inside of each other and that’s it.

Group sex - To somepeople one isn’t enough or somepeople want to show of their partner or their skills at taking multiple people at once. There can be multiple variations of this including all male crowd, all female crowd (some using strapons), a mixture of male and female and race specific like nords only or orcs only. As well as having variants where the pc is the one being fucked and enduring and other ones where they are part of the crowd.

BDSM session - Somepeople look great with chains around their wrists and a collar around their throat. Depending on the person’s behaviour they may request to be dominated by the pc/ or the pc can ask to be dominated, at which stage until a safeword is said the 2 are in a mutually agreed dom sub relationship. The dom ca n order the sub to do things like strip, have sex with them, have sex with others (single person or made to have a gangbang), place them in bondage, move into the doms house/ move into a pc owned home to be together, cook, clean, pleasure themselves, placed in chastity, worship dom and more.

 

Proposing, engaged and wedding:

There are three ways to get engaged, freely, forced and religious. Within skyrim the temple of mara and temple of dibella both other their own unique take on marriage and weddings. While Mara focuses on the love and connection of the two lovers Dibella focuses on the sexual actions, love making and pregnancy all in the name of Dibella. Meanwhile, you could be forced to marry someone if you were enslaved (simple slavery) or ordered by a jarl to marry someone they want you to (in return for not being punished for a crime). Other methods of being forced into a marriage might be explored like rich npcs threatening the pc with either false or real incriminating information, being aggressive and forceful or offering a large sum of money to marry them.

 

Freely engaged:

From jeweler and sometimes random shops you can buy a range of different engagement rings. These rings can range in prices and can have different passive effects and enchantments like higher speech and better combat skills when worn. Once the pc has one in their inventory and they speak to the person they are dating/wants to get engaged with, they can propose and can be either accepted or denied. Denying marriage has the chance to damage the relationship while other times it won’t. They may give a reasoning behind why they don’t want to get engaged and it is up ro you how you respond. If they agree to marry you then congrats! They will ask you who should wear the ring and you can pick you or them. If they propose to you you will always be given the ring to wear. Once engaged the fun begins. You must pick where you would like your wedding. You can have it in the temple of mara, as they offer outside marriage service for a higher fee, you can ask a jarl who may do it for free for a thane of their hold otherwise you will have to pay or you decide to have a wondering preacher or priest, who now roam around skyrim and offer wedding services and blessings. The wondering preacher or priest will need a location this will allow you to pick either a home you own, the location of a standing stone or the streets of a city of your choice. Once it is settled you will need to go and buy your wedding outfit or dress. It doesn't have to be traditional you could do it in a bondage harness if you so pleased. Once everything is set head to the location and speak to the person in charge of the ceremony, priest jarl or preacher, they will say the ceremony will happen tomorrow and you can pick morning afternoon or night. Once decided you have until that time to do whatever you like before the ceremony. If you are to be the husband you will arrive early and be prepared first, if you are the wife or choose to arrive second when arranging with the host you will arrive after everyone else and will walk the Isle. After a short speech you can say I do or stop the service either sealing your marriage or stopping at the very last second. Stopping will significantly damage your relationship. Once married you will have to pick a place to live your home or theirs. Depending on some characteristics explored later on you may or may not get a say in this decision.

 

Marriage the religious way

Belief of Mara

When it comes to being a member of Maras family your responsibilities and activities within the belief will be different if you are a brother or sister of mara. All male members will be brothers and all females will be sisters. All members wear robes and submit all belongings to the head priest. The pc is given an amulet of mara and are given daily tasks to complete while getting to know brothers and sisters of Mara.

 

Daily tasks:

Charity collection: Go to a specific town and collect donations for the religion. Some may take advantage of your charity work before they give to charity.

Prayer duty: you and another member are assigned prayers. Kneel in front of the statue at the temple and say prayers all day.

Pleasure duty: You and another brother or sister are assigned pleasure duty. In the main hall of the temple the 2 are expected to have sex in the name of mara.

Open house - The temple have an open house day where the public can come to the temple and learn more about mara and the temple while having the chance to get to know the members of the temple and potentially propose on the spot to a member of the temple.

Naked dual - 2 members are picked to participate in a dual. But they must be naked. The winner will gain positive relarion with everyone apart from the loser of the dual.

Private date- 2 members are picked to go on a private date to develop their relationship.

Nude day - All members must submit their clothes and spend the next 24 hours naked.

Pairing day - The final event that can takecppsce is pairing day. On pairing day members of the temple come together and propose to the one they are in love with and get married if they accept. A mass marriage ceremony will take place in the temple before given the choice to either stay and carry on with the responsibilities and tasks of a member of the temple apart from the pairing day or leave the temple as a happily married couple.

 

Mara Divorce:

If you decide to get a divorce you must travel to the temple and speak to the priest. They will consider your request for a divorce. If they accept your request they will separate you and your partner and ask if you will be returning to the brother or sister Hood of mara. You can decide to rejoin the religion or go free spirit and not rejoin the religion. Your partner can also request a divorce which you can beg them to reconsider or accept it and separate from them.

 

Belief of Dibella:

Dibella focuses on the acts of sex, lust and pregnancies rather than the personal connection between the couple. All members of the temple are expected to be open to have sex with everyone and anyone in the name of Dibella.

 

Joining the temple:

Before you are welcomed into the temple like mara. You must complete a rite of acceptance. Depending on your characters gender will determine what your rite of passage will be. If you are a male you are expected to travel skyrim naked without any gear to a random location where a naked priestess of Dibella would be waiting. Once there you are expected to have sex with the Priestess before making your way back to the temple. Once back all gear is returned to you and the ceremony begins welcoming you into the temple. If you are a female character it’s will be harder for you. (Lore: The temple believe women must be strong but even stronger when lustful and sexual as a result females are treated harsher to strengthen them to carry as many babies their conditioned bodies will allow before not being able to carry anymore.) The female character is fucked by 4 males of the temple (2 vagina sex animations and 2 anal sex animations) before bring plugged and placed in a chastity belt (devious device) and expected to travel naked to a random location where a priest of Dibella is waiting to release you from your restraints to then assault you and have sex with you before reequiping the restraints on you and sending you back to the temple where you are released gear returned and prepared for the ceremony of welcoming.

 

Ceremony of welcoming:

Once you have passed the rite of acceptance you will be stripped naked and walked into the temple where the members are waiting for you. The pc is put on their knees and made to listen to the priest (if female) or priestess (if male) give a welcoming speech before giving the pc a choice to accept and be welcomed into the religion or leave, this would be your final chance until you have fullfilled your role. If you accept the priest or priestess will bless you before having sex with the pc. All items are then taken from the player and placed in a storage chest in the temple. The pc is informed that they are not allowed to wear clothes while being a brother or sister of Dibella and if caught you will be punished harshly for breaking the rules of Dibella and are not allowed to leave the temple unless you have asked the priest or priestess for permission (which can be declined) or unless a daily task permits you to go outside the temple. You will also be assigned a bed or bedroll which you can use to sleep in at night.

 

Daily tasks:

Every morning the priestess will assign tasks to the sisters while the priest assigns tasks to the brothers. Once your daily task has been completed you are free to do whatever you please or request another task to do from the priestess or priest. These tasks can be:

 

Holy fuck: You are another member of the other sex are assigned to have a holy sex session within the temple. In the main area you must meet with your partner and please and pleassure each other in the name of Dibella in the hope of potentially becoming pregnant and having a baby in the name of Dibella.

Charity work: You are given an amulet of Dibella to show you are from the temple, making you immune to any laws you could break relating to being naked or having sex outside or in a public place, assigned to go to a specific city or town and expected to go and collect charity in the name of Dibella to aid the temple in supplies and keeping the doors open. Somepeople may be generious and offer you a sum of gold, others may want something in return, “a holy blessing of Dibella”, for a charity sum of gold, others may want a holy blessing and then not pay you and finally some may just tell you to fuck off and get a job and clothes.

Temple cleaner: You are assigned cleaning duty meaning it is your responsibility to clean the floors and ensure everything is nice and clean.

Priest personal service (female only): You are assigned as the priests aid for the day. You must follow the priest around as he provides speeches and does his daily tasks around the temple. He may request you to collect a drink or food for him or may expect you to open your legs and take his “Dibella cock”. He may also grant you permission to go outside in order to go to a shop to collect an order or supplies for him.

Free day: Youre in luck you are given a day off from temple duties.

 

The grand conceive and harness of Dibellas love:

Once a week at noon all brothers and sisters are paired up and all fuck at the same time in the temple halls. The only two that arent involved are the priest and priestess as they are walking around spectating and performing speeches about Dibella. Once everyone is finished there is the chance of the harness of dibellas love to take place as well. If you are male there isn’t much that happens apart from you may be picked to take part. If you are female you may be picked to take part. This will involve being placed in the centre and fucked by the chosen male before being plugged with plugs from devious device that will randomly vibrate and locked in a body harness. You must wear this for the next week until the next grand conceive. The religion believe sealing the male sperm inside the female will increase the chance of pregnancy while the harness will keep the female body in shape and in optimal condition to carry a baby. During this week you are excused from any work this involves going outside or being fucked resulting in you mainly being a cleaner or having a lot of free time. Once the ceremony is over you are given the rest of the day off and given permission to leave, if you are not in the harness, with an amulete of Dibella but expected to return to the temple before nightfall otherwise you will face the Wrathof Dibella when you return.

 

Abusing permission of leave and Dibella guards:

If you are granted permission to leave you must return before nightfall. If you are late you will be lectured If you don’t return within 24 hours of missing the return time a group of Dibella worshippers will be sent to retrieve you. These worshippers are refered to as the Guards of Dibella and provide protection at the temple and ensure all members are safe and follow orders. The regular guards don’t wear any clothes or armor like the brothers and sisters, however, they do carry bo staffs and handcuffs. If you are caught by the guards they will order you to surrender and to return to the temple with them. You can pick to either obey and surrender. You will be turned around handcuffed and escorted back to the temple to face the wrath of Dibella. If you refuse to go peacefully they will attempt to subdue you and take you back to the temple. They will use their bo staffs to beat you into submission where you will be knocked out and awaken cuffed and back at the temple experiencing the wrath of Dibella. If you are skilled enough you could beat the guards into submission where they will submit and you can talk to each one and pick to either kill or let them go with their lives. By letting them go they will return to the temple and you will have brought yourself sometime before more guards are sent after you. If you beat three groups regardless of killing them or letting them go the high guards will be sent after you. If you kill even one of the guards during your encounter you would have breached the laws of Dibella and the high guards will be sent to either kill you or return you to the temple. The high guards are the best of the best. Trained to protect and kill. They come equip with a range of iron and steel armor and equiped with bo staffs as well as swords. On the first encounter of the high guards they will attempt to make contact and give you a final chance to come quietly if you agree and submit you will be cuffed and escorted back to the temple. If you refuse they will show no mercy they will beat you down and either knock you out or enact extreme justice in the name of Dibella. If they pick extreme justice you will be knocked down, stripped of anything you had and cuffed before awakening exactly where you were about to be executed by either beheading or sword through the chest. If you kill or escape the attack they will not stop hunting you. The more high guards you kill the more guards will come after you and will not give you the chance to surrender and will just beat your ass into submission.

 

Laws of Dibella and Wrath of Dibella:

Just like every religion there are sins against the religion and Dibella are very strict and harsh when it comes to following the laws and the consequences. Each law is linked with a category of seriousness: Minor, Serious and Fatal. Minor breaches are handled with consequences linked to the minor tag, serious breaches and handled with serious consequence if lucky you might be handed a minor consequence finally the fatal tag can be handled with any of the conequences regardless of the tag.

Laws:

The beauty of body must not be covered with earthly materials (Minor)

Everyone has a responsibility and must complete their tasks (Minor)

Failure to return on time but still before sunrise (Minor)

Forbidden to go outside without the permission of the leader (Minor)

Murder of a brother or sister (Serious)

Murder of a Dibella guard (Serious)

Failure to return after 24 hours (Serious)

Murder of a High guard of Dibella (Fatal)

Assault/murder of the priest or priestess (Fatal)

 

 

Consequences:

The consequences are the main event of the wrath of Dibella. The priestess will stand in front of the statue of Dibella and call upon Dibella to decide the punishment making the consequence random. The consequences can be:

Spanking session (Minor)

Whipping session (Minor)

Outside permission suspended for 7 days (Minor)

7 day punishment harness (Harness with plugs that randomly shock the wearer) (Serious)

14 days punishment harness (serious)

City prison (Handed over to the city guards and sent to jail for a random amount of time) (Serious)

Light Dibella cleanse (Shocked with a bolt of lightening delivered by either the priest or priestess) (Serious)

Full Dibella cleanse (Constantly shocked with lightening delivere by broth priest and priestess until low hp) (Fatal)

Dibella justice (Made to have sex with every member of the opposite sex before having sex with the priest or priestess and then executed with life drain by that person) (Fatal)

Life drain (Be executed by having your life drained by the priest and priestess) (Fatal)

Beheaded (Fatal)

 

Pregnant in the name of Dibella:

At any point the priestess may approach and request to test for pregnancy. She will cast a spell on the pc and see if they are pregnant or not. If they are not pregnant they are sent on their way. If they are pregnant they are taken by the priestess to the main hall to announce the carrier of Dibella. If the father of the baby was a member of the temple they will get the choice to take your hand in parenthood and raise the child either within the temple or move to another home together before returning to the temple to bless the baby in the name of Dibella. If the father accepts you get to choose to stay or leave the temple. If the father refuses to join you you will be forced to stay at the temple until the baby is born and vise versa if you are a male. If the pregnancy occured due to someone outside of the temple you will be forced to stay at the temple without given a choice.

Leaving the temple pregnant:

If you leave you are free from the responsibilities but you must still follow the rules of Dibella (like no clothing). Every now and then a guard of Dibella will visit you to ensure you are still following the laws of Dibella and if you are not it is their job to warn you and give you a strike. 3 strikes and you are forced to return to the temple. The strikes go against both parents of the baby meaning if your partner decides to not follow the laws you better tell them or risk having a strike against you. When it is time to have the baby a group of brothers and sisters arrive to collect both parents and escort them back to the temple. You can choose to go with them or refuse saying you need more time. You can do this all the way up until the day you have the baby where they will send Dibella guards to force you to return. You could risk fighting them and having the baby without the blessing of Dibella or go and have the birthing ceromony.

Staying at the temple pregnant:

If you decide to stay, forced to stay or made to return you are greeted by the priestess (depending on the reason you are there) before dressing the pc in a harness of Dibella without the plugs. You are excused from all responsibilities apart from cleaning and free time as well as excused from the grand conceive but you can still watch. You can still request permission to leave but are still expected to follow the laws of Dibella and can still be punished with minor consequences unless you committ a fatal breach which then means they will ignore the baby and if you lose the baby it would be seen as Dibella punishing you even more.

Birthing ceromony:

Once you return to the temple for the cermony the woman will be placed in a Harness of Dibella if they arent already in one and if the father is present will go with the priest. The father is expected to pray all the way up until the woman is about to give birth. Meanwhile the priestess is providing pleassure to the woman by providing soft fourplay and fingering her as well as providing a bath of Dibella. Once completed the woman is escorted into the main hall and put on her back and give birth. Once given birth the woman gets to choice to either keep the baby and raise the baby (freely leave the temple no strings attached) or give the baby away and stay in the name of Dibella (Stay and carry on living in the temple). If the woman refuses to keep the baby the father is given the chance to leave with the baby and raise the baby before tthe baby is given away.

 

FAMILY SECTION

 

Overall pregnancy:

In a menu you can pick to have pregnancies last 9 months, 9 weeks or 9 days and how quickly the baby will grow 1 year or 1 month. You can get a new spell called check pregnancy and check self pregnancy. By casting these spells it will inform you if the target is pregnant or not. If you are pregnant you will start a quest called “I’m pregnant!”. If your spouse or someone you have had sex with is pregnant you will get a quest called “They’re pregnant!” If you don’t use either of these spells after the first month/week/day you will automatically get this quest if someone else is pregnant they will send a letter to inform you that they are pregnant starting the related quest. If the woman isnt the spouse of the man they aren’t expected to raise the child together but is honourable as long as there isnt an affair. After it is known to the other of the pregnancy either party can decide they dont want to be involved and walk away leaving the woman to fend for herself. The male can request a second chance but it is up to the woman if she wants to let him back into her life and the baby. During pregnancy stamina will slowly decrease along with other debuffs such as magic, health, stealth, etc. These debuffs will get worse the longer the pregnancy and will still have an effect for a period of time after given birth.

Miscarriage:

This mod is aimed to have some risk, consequences and some dark tones therefore this could have an option to be turned off if the user chooses. If you are pregnant the woman shouldnt be slaying bandits and dragons while carrying the most fraggile package a growing human. Therefore, taking damage will affect the baby. The baby will have an invisible health bar that will go down a certain amount depending on the damage taken by the mother. Any kind of damage can affect this health bar, it doesn’t have to be from an enemy. Health potions will also recover the health of the baby. If the baby health reaches 0 they will die and result in the notification something feels wrong. By casting the pregnancy check spell you will be informed of the baby death and the spell will remove any trace of the baby from the mothers body but will cause the same debuffs as giving birth for a while.

Giving birth:

If you belong to a religion they will have their own cermonies discussed above. If you are alone you will be given a notifcation of the pregnancy and if there is a bed near by given the option to give birth on the bed. Which ever happens the pc will lay down and give birth to the baby and given a prompt to name the baby and informed of the gender. after confirmed you will be given the baby as an appearal item that is automatically equipped when in your inventory. The baby still has a health bar that is affected by the damage taken by the carrier, so if you are an adventure might be best to leave the baby at home with a parent.

 

Growing up:

The baby will grow into a child after 5 years/months into a child. They will act just like a normal child from hearthfire with the addition of being a follower. From being a child all children adopted or born can be used as a follower however they will be weak in combat and will flee if you are defeated and taken by another mod like death alternative or defeat. Another option that can be toggled is children deaths. From 13 weeks/months/years they will become teenagers (scaled down normal size) where they will be stronger in combat and have more health. Finally at 18 they will become full grown adults. When used as a companion you will need to equip your children with equipment if they are going to be fighters and you can instruc them on what to use, weapons, magic or to stay away from the conflic and not engage. Just like when they were a baby they can be injuried and can die from damage taken. If this happens and you find the body you will be given the quest “A child has died…” and it will be your job to either collect the body and return into to your home and to your spouse or bury the body. If you bury the body there and then when you return home your spouse may ask or you can inform them about your child and your spouse may respond with respect burrying them where they died or may scouled you in doing that. If you collect the body you will carry the body back and together you and your spouse can lay your child to rest in your choosen spot and say your final goodbyes.

 

Events with children:

Go out and play: Child will go out and play

Play with me: Child may ask the pc to play tag or hide and seek with them

Missing child lost: If the child goes outside they may go missing and your spouse will send you to go looking. They could have ended up getting lost playing outside and you will find them with a quest marker (quest marker could be toggled). After so long they will return home on their own and appologise for getting lost.

Missing child taken: If the child goes outside they may go missing and your spouse will send you to go looking. They could be taken by local bandits or criminals for a ransom. You can pay the ransom, slay the criminals and recover your child or offer a trade yourself for your child which if accepted will result in you being taken as a slave or sold in simple slavery.

Training: Your child wants to learn a specific skill. You can choose to teach them the skill they want or make them learn and develop other skills. (Any skill up to the respected level of the pc. For example can train one handed up to level 60 if they have 60 in one handed themself. Each age stage has a max level they can level the skill up to before they progress to the next age stage).

House work: Your child is helping around the house.

 

Spouse traits:

Everyone is assigned traits that arent apparent until you are living with the person. These traits can be positives or negatives.

Cook: When asked for food they will provide additional food

Sex addict: Want to have sex and expect sex more often

Nudist: They expect you to be naked when it the house. They will stop if there are children in the house

Skooma user: If they have this trait they can be found often under the influence of skooma and may ask you to get them skooma. If they don’t get skooma they can get withdraws which can result in them loosing this trait or loosing this trait and gaining a negative trait. They could also be arrested for possession if you live within a city and will need to wait until they are released or pay their bail. (Won’t be under influence if children are around)

Aggressive: They get angry easily and can take it out either verbally or physically (Wont be as often if children are present(

House wife: If a male has this trait they expect the woman to stay at home. If a woman has this trait they will never refuse to do any tasks around the house

Abusive: They may be physically abusive and h`urt their spouse. (Could affect baby if victim is pregnant) (Toggleable in a menu) This trait will ignore conditions that are marked as blocked due to kids. (For example if they had nudist and abusive. They will still expect you to be naked even if children are around and may even assault their partner if they don’t fullfil the nudist requirement).

Drinker: They like to drink alot either at home or in the local tavern or inn. (Won’t drink at home if children are there)

Caring: They care about you and your health and will provide medical supplies like potions from time to time. Wont have this trait along with any negative traits.

Worker: They work and provide gold for the family giving you a share o their money.

Cheater: They may cheat and may even leave you with or without the children if they decide to go and live with someone else

 

[sukadikyo]

Love the concept... should leave pregnancy to being female and integrate it to your mod though imo.

[reinyn]

Love the idea of this, but is anyone going to do something with it?

[EHennings]

I love this, but I can't code

[starchaser92]

Thats a long wall of text for something that will not be realized

[tonyparker137]

just try SpousesEnhanced_SE its not cover everything you said but its pretty decent mod always in my lo

[Commander_]

That would have been an amazing mod... If it existed! I'm curious as to why no one has created yet, I would have expected a lot of people to be interested in an up-to-date and highly advanced marriage mod.