need help, timer where the game keeps crashing

[Goddess_moka]

So i have tried restarting the whole game on a new save several times. but it is always tends to be about two days of playing the game (IRL) that at some point it will just start crashing and it seems to be a certain point that it does it as if i get to that point then go back a few saves and just use the wait or sleep function then it will always crash at the same point. i honestly have no clue what is doing it i don't know if its from a event from one of the mods or what but i don't even remember at what point that this started happening. I really at this point have no where else to go. so please help me, hell i will even find a way to record a full playthrough if it means getting help to make this stop....
the current load order is as follows: 
skyrim.esm
Update.esm
dawnguard.esm
Hearthfires.esm
Dragonborn.esm
unofficial skyrim legendary edition patch.esp
sexlab.esm
sexlabaroused.esm
devious devices - assets.esm
schlongs of skyrim - core.esm
CreatureFramework.esm
Campfire.esm
ZaZanimationpack.esm
Devious devices - Intergration.esm
Devious Devices - Expansion.esm
SkyrimChainBeasts.esm
Daymoyl.esm
Skyrim - utility mod.esm
ApachiiHairFemales.esm
ApachiiHair.esm
Amputator.esm
dcc-soulgem-oven-000.esm
zzEstrus.esp
zzEstrusMimic.esp
AOS.esp
Rebirth Monster.esp
AllBooksHavePerks.esp
MilkModNew.esp
SexLabNudeCreatures.esp
SexlabNudeCreaturesDB.esp
SimplyKnock.esp
BRB_BeastRaceBodypaints.esp
Craftable Soulstoneswithforge.esp
Devious devices for him.esp
Devious Devices - BRRF.esp
dD Enchanted Chests.esp
Devious Devices - Equip.esp
DeviousBodyAlteration.esp
DeviouslyHelpless.esp
Dynamic TimeScale.esp
Fertility Mode - Children.esp
FertilityMode.esp
FleshFX.esp
FNIS.esp
FNISSexyMove.esp
Ghosu - Project Flintlock - Ammo Addon.esp
GiantPhysicsFix.esp
MilkModNEW CF.esp
MilkModNEW HF.esp
MilkModNEW Zaz Sanbox.esp
RaceMenu.esp
RaceMenuMorphsUUNP.esp
RaceMenuPlugin.esp
Remodeled Armor - underwear.esp
Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer - Dawnguard.esp
Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer - Dragonborn.esp
YOT - Your Own Thoughts.esp
Sacrosanct - Vampires of Skyrim.esp
Sexlab Aroused Creatures.esp
SexLabDefeat.esp
SexlabMatchMaker.esp
SexLabTools.esp
SkyUI.esp
SLAnimLoader.esp
SlaveTats.esp
SOS - Carloss32 Lizard Addon.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
SOSRaceMenu.esp
Supreme Fog.esp
Unique Uniques.esp
UnreadBooksGlow.esp
Vigor - Combat and Injuries.esp
VioLens.esp
WVExpansion.esp
xPMSE.esp
zNMM_radiantProstitutionPatch.esp
3DNPC.esp
Summermyst - Enchantments of Skyrim.esp
SD Cages.esp
Skyrim Immersive Creatures.esp
Book of UUNP Iron And Steel.esp
Shout Like a Virgin.esp
xazPrisonOverhaulPatched.esp
RealisticNeedsandDiseases.esp
AKSkyrimUnderground.esp
Elemental Destruction.esp
Thunderchild - Epic Shout Package.esp
MoreNastyCritters.esp
Animal_SOS.esp
Animal_SOS_Original_Mesh.esp
Milk Addict.esp
Skyrim Immersive Creatures - DLC2.esp
SOTGenesisMod.esp
SanguinesDebauchery.esp
SexLabNudeCreaturesDG.esp
HentaiCreatures.esp
SL Survival.esp
SexLabSkoomaWhore.esp
Immersive Encounters.esp
Remodeled Armor - Vanilla Replacer.esp
Bondage Furniture World.esp
Slaverun_Reloaded.esp
zNightMistressMansion.esp
Deviously Cursed Loot.esp
Atlas Legendary.esp
SkyrimChainBeastsIntergration.esp
SimpleSlavery.esp
ZaFromTheDeepsV2.esp
bac.esp
Book of UUNP - textures.esp
Frostfall.esp
Mortal Enemies.esp
One With Nature - DG+DB.esp
HornyCreatures.esp
DD - BRRF_Patch - Cursed Loot.esp
EstrusChaurus.esp
Extra Werewolf Perks.esp
GenesisSICPatch2.esp
JBMod.esp
LoreFriendlySpells.esp
Master of weapons - All in One.esp
RND_AnimalLoot.esp
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
SkyrimChainBeastsDB.esp
TradeBarter.esp
Achieve That.esp
chfahPlayerVoicesets.esp
YOT - Frostfall Module 3.0.esp
BrandingDeviceOfDoom.esp
SexLab_dialogues.esp
SexLab-Parasites.esp
DeviousFollowers.esp
TentaCave.esp
MilkMod_MilkPumpsBasicNB.esp
Enchanting - IDWIW.esp
Deviously Enslaved.esp
TimingisEverything.esp
EggFactory.esp
FNISspells.esp
Immersive Speechcraft.esp
AngrimApprentice.esp
Daymoyl_DawnguardAddon.esp
Follower Pack II.esp
Ghosu - Project FlintLock.esp
BVLT - Khajiit.esp
Follower Pack I.esp
dvmb.esp
FMEA Skyrim.esp
DeadlyMutilation.esp
UIExtensions.esp
sr_FillHerUp.esp
Ordinator - Perks of Skyrim.esp
Elemental Destruction - Prdinator Patch.esp
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
Deviously Cursed Loot LAL AddOn.esp


All Mods Installed are as follows: 
Aos 2.5.1 Full Installer         V2.5.1
Achieve That!        V2.3.1
All Books Have Perks        V1.0.0
All In one 1-20         V1.20.0
Alternate Start - Live another Life    V3.1.7
Ammo Addon - added Muzzleflash effect - 1_3         V1.3.0
Amputator Beta V0.7
AngrimApprentice_V2_11.7z
Animal SOS_0.1.3.7
AnimationLoadingFix        V1.1.0
ApachiiSkyHairFemale        V1.5.0
ApachiiSkyHair full        V1.6.0
Atlas MAp Markers complete        V1.7.0
BRB 2K - BeastRaceBodyPaints--92620-3-2
BVLT - Full Pack - NMM Installer     V2.0.4
BodySlide and Outfit Studio         V4.7.1
BrandingDeviceOfDoom    V0.47
Campfire     V1.11.0
ConsoleUtil    V3.0.0
Craftable Soulstones_filled-empty_with Forge        V1.1.0
Crash Fixes     V12.0.0
Cum Lover Queen Edition     V1.0.7
D13 Faster Get up Stand up Animation Font and back fixed     V2.0.0
DD - Beast Race Refits         V2.21
DD for him (rebbot 3.0)
DDa     V3.0
DDi    V4.2
DDx    V4.2
Deadly Mutilation core     V1.3.3
Deadly Mutilation Meshes Pack Vanilla        V1.3.3
Death Alternative - Captured     V7.0.0
Death Alternative - Your Money Or Your Life    V7.0.1
Devious Body Alteration     V1.0.0
Devious Devices - Equip     V410
Devious Followers     V1.72
Deviously Cursed Loot     V7.3.7
Deviously Enchanted Chests     V2.24
Devious Enslaved Continued
Deviously Helpless
DisplayEnemyLevel     V1.3.1
Dungeon Darkness     V2.9.1
Dynamic TimeScale Dawnguard Dragonborn    V4.2.0
EZ2C DIALOGUE MENU - FULLY CONFIGURABLE     V3.1.0
EggFactory35a
Elemental Destruction - Ordinator Patch    V2.9.26
Elemental Destruction Magic (dragonborn Version)     V1.2.0
Enchanting - i do what i want        V1.0.0
Encounter Zones Unlocked     V1.1.0
Estrus Chauraus     V4.37
EstrusForSkyrim    V241r1
EstrusMimics        V2.2.0
Extra Werewolf Perks     V1.17.0
FMEA Skyrim     V1.43.7
FNIS Behavior     V7.4.5
FNIS Creature Pack     V6.1.0
FNIS Sexy Move     V7.1.0
FNIS Spells     V5.0.1
Fertility Mode - Children    V0.6.0
Fertility Mode        V1.5.0
Fill Her Up
First Person     V2.3.0
FleshFX    V1.1.0
Follower Pack I        V1.0.0
Follower Pack II    V1.1.0
From the Deeps (redone)     V2.6
Frostfall     V3.4.1
Fuz Ro Doh     V6.1.0
Genesis    V1.82.0
Genesis SIC Patch Levelled     V1.0.0
Giants Physics Fix    V1.0.0-b
HDT Physics Extensions        V14.28.0
HornyCreaturesOf Skyrim     V1.10.7
Immersive Speechcraft     V1.1.0
Immersice World Encounters    V2.2.0
Interesting NPCs     V3.42.0
JContainers
Know Your Limits     V1.1.0
KyneBlessing20190409.7
Legible Item Descriptions     V0.0.0-beta2
LoreFriendlySpells    V1.8.0
MfgConsole    V1.1.0
Milk Addict     V0.53
Milk-Mod-Economy-2019-02-11
MoreNastyCritters    V7.11
Mortal Enemies    V1.4-73921-1.4
Netimmerse Override     V3.4.4
Night_Mistress_Mansion_0.7bia1
One with Nature All-in-One     V2.2.0
Ordinator     V9.26.0
PSVAC - Dawnguard     V0.982.0
PSVAC - Dragonborn     V0.982.0
PSVAC - Vanilla     V0.982.0
Esbern Voice Fix     V0.0.0
Project Flintlock - Main File     V1.3.0
RaceMenu     V3.4.5
Realistic Needs and Diseases     V2.3.4
Remodeled Armor for UUNP Bodyslide HDT     V1.18
Revenge Of the Enemies     V2.2.0
SD Cages 360
SDPlus20190502
SDResources20190502
(9) SKse TintMask Config 2K
SL Defeat     V5.3.5
Feet Lovers     V1.0.0
SLDialogues20190502
SOS - Carloss32 Lizard Addon 1.0
Slongs of Skyrim     V3.0.0
Sacrosanct     V5.15.0
SexLab Aroused Creatures     V04.0 beta 05
SexLab Tools     V3.0
SexLabAroused    _v28b
SexLab Framework     V1.0.0
SexLabMatchMaker.Rev7
SexLab Survival     V0.541 alpha
Sexy Idle Animation     V1.1.0
Shout Like a Virgin BodyslideUUNP     V3.3
Shout Like a Virgin     V6.7
ShowRaceMenu PreCacheKiller     V1.3
Simple Slavery Plus     V6.02
Simply Knock     V1.0.8
Skeletons Pack
SkoomaWhore     V1.0
SkyUi     V5.1.0
Skyrim - being a cow - Tats     V1.7e
Skyrim - being a cow     V1.7e
Skyrim - Utility Mod     V130
Skyrim Immersive Creatures     V6.5.2b
Skyrim Underground     V4.6.0
Skyrim Chain Beasts     V0.2.8
SlaveTats     V1.3.0 beta 2
Slave tats-anal
SlaveTats-brat
SlaveTats-Criminal
SlaveTats-Draconic
SlaveTats-Makeup
SlaveTats-Property
SlaveTats-Scrawl
SlaveTats-SM
SlaveTats-Submissive
SlaveTats-Symbols
SlaveTats-Whore
SlaveTats-Zoo
Slaverun Reloaded     V3.0 beta 1 03
Summermyst     V307
Supreme and Volumetric Fog     V2
TSS5062-sperm
TSS5062-sperm-heavy
The Book Of UUNP - SevenBase Bombshell Default Non-HDT     V1.67.0
The Mysterious Breeding Rooms     V1.02
Timing is Everything    V1.0.0
Trade and Barter - Hearthfire     V1.2.0
Truly Absorb Dragon Souls     V1.3.0
UIExtensions     V1.2.0
UNP Base Main Body     V1.2.0
UNPKhajiithotfix     V1.0.0
Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Editon Patch
Unread Books Glow     V2.2.0
Vigor - Combat and Injuries    V10.6.0
VioLens - a killmove mod     V2.11.0
Weapon Variants Expansion     V1.2.0
XP32 Maximum Skeleton Extended     V4.51.0
YOT - Your own thoughts all in one installer 
Zaz Animation Pack UNP     V8.0
dcc-soulgem-oven     V310
dvmb     V2.2
Vampy_tats
xazPrisonOverhaul - Patched     V420

[donttouchmethere]

Sounds to me like a memory issue

 

Do you use skyrim stability tools like?:

> skse.ini

> crash fixes

> enboost

 

more about that here:

Spoiler

 

 

did you check your save with?:

> save tool

> or resaver if you use crash fixes

 

are you close to your FNIS animation limit?

[Goddess_moka]

1 hour ago, donttouchmethere said:

Sounds to me like a memory issue

 

Do you use skyrim stability tools like?:

> skyrim.ini

> crash fixes

> enboost

 

more about that here:

  Hide contents

 

 

did you check your save with?:

> save tool

> or resaver if you use crash fixes

 

are you close to your FNIS animation limit?

okay so... how the crap do i use any of this? and isn't skyrim.ini a file in the game its self? how would that help?
i looked at the pages and got a headache from just looking at them. Also I don't think i am Near the FNIS animation limit though why it has one in the first place i don't really understand...
these are the pages right? 
https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/38649?tab=description
https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/52363?tab=description
https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/76776
 

[donttouchmethere]

58 minutes ago, Goddess_moka said:

skyrim.ini a file in the game its self?

was tired I meant skse.ini

[donttouchmethere]

1 hour ago, Goddess_moka said:

i looked at the pages and got a headache from just looking at them.

I marked all important stability tools in my blog in red now, that might help to get a better overview

 

also you find all links there too (the blue stuff)

 

maybe this helps already if you get a headache from reading stuff:

SKSE.ini for lazy users

this will help to stabilize some memory issues right away if you use a high number of mods

 

Save game script cleaner => helps you right away to check your savegames for orphan scripts or to check if you have an unusual high number of active script

FallrimTools - Script cleaner and more => does the same, but is also able to open save games that got a new save format from crash fixes

 

crash fixes is needed to make your game more stable and enables to save games with a string count higher than 65k (vanilla skyrim has a limit of 65k)

the chances that your game is close to that or already over vanilla limit is pretty high (you can see your string count with the save tools)

 

also your right my blog misses a link to fallrim tools (resaver)

[Grey Cloud]

4 hours ago, Goddess_moka said:

looked at the pages and got a headache from just looking at them.

Then put up with crashes. There is no dumbed-down way to mod Skyrim, you have to put in the time and effort to learn quite a few things to get a stable game before you load it down with mods.